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Hexagram 9.1.2 to 53 (regarding trust)

zebrelle

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Hi,

I asked the I-Ching if I should trust my husband. I admit that I have a lot of trust issues because of my past relationships. But there always were a few thing with my husband that bugged me. Nothing happened per say, but there are a few things that I find a bit weird. I did find two things in the past though, but decided to trust his words. And, usually, when he says something to me, it's true from what I can see. So, I'm not sure if I'm right to not fully trust him now or if it's just me who has serious trust issues. I'm not sure how to interpret this reading. I'm not sure if the I-Ching is talking about me and my trust issues or him. :S Can someone help shed some light on 9.1.2?

Thanks,
Tania
 

Trojina

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it seems a clear indication that you can trust him. In 9.2 you are shown as an animal led back on a rope ! At least the answer says to me you can trust an rely on your inner guidance.

There's a 'big picture' here, and that's 53 which is about all the proper steps to marriage and so on.

So in this context of building a very long solid bond you have to do day to day work on the 'little things'. Little things are what there is to work on in hex 9. Taking care (hex 9) to sustain long term relationships (53).


I wouldn't normally claim to know if you could trust someone but this answer is so sweetly reassuring. Tend it carefully as it looks to be an enduring union.


Obviously if you have reason to doubt him then you must make your own decisions here. But this is a lovely cast I think. Ask yourself how do you feel guided here ? To trust or not to trust ?

Possibly the 9.2 may also indicate that if your husband ever did stray he wouldn't go far !... he comes straight back on a leash :rofl: Perhaps he is sometimes tempted, like all men, but is very committed to this relationship so never follows temptations.
 

zebrelle

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3 years ago already. Time goes by so fast, wow. I met my husband at the beginning of 2012. We got married last August. :) Yes, things went pretty fast, but it clicked right away and we're exactly the same.

Well, I'm glad to know that this reading is good. I haven't used the I-Ching for a few years now. Well, since I met my husband, lol. So, I wasn't too sure how to read it. I think deep down I know that I can trust him. I wouldn't have married him otherwise. I know that I often over analyze things. I guess I wanted to see what the I-Ching would tell me. Thanks for your review and taking the time to respond to me. :)
 

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