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I have thinking about these hexs I threw the other day and I seem to go back and forth in my mind about whether or not they indicate a good possibilty or say the situation is hopeless.
The back story is that on a recent out of town trip I met someone whom I really fell for and think there is a lot of compatability and chemistry and attraction between us and I know he felt similarly too. The trouble is in the fact that there are some big obstacles that are in the way of us pursuing each other the way i think we both want to. Neither of us addressed the obvious obstacles at the time though. Now that I am back home, I've decided to take a wait and see approach but I did consult the I Ching for some insight here.
I asked what he is feeling about me and the situation?
39.2.3.4 to 47
on the surface it looks bad but I think the lines in 39 do make some mention of trying to get past the obstruction and making a change in one's life and going down a completely different path (me?)
I also asked Will he pursue me?
6.4 to 59
this seems to be a very similar reading to the above and something I read about hex 59 did mention something about good idea to travel, and that would be required in this situation

What I am afraid of is spinning these readings in my mind to look more positive than they may be. Either way, my mind is made up to let him make contact first and if he does I will base my next move on that contact.

What do you think? Have I got it right, does there seem to be a desire on his part to get around the obstacles and have a try with me? Or is my romantic heart running away with all reason again? :blush:
 

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to help put things in perspective...

I did another reading to focus on things from my point of view in this experience.
I asked "Why did he come into my life at this time?"
(writing the question now, it sounds negative but it really isn't, I am just interested to see if the I Ching would show any deeper meaning about our crossing paths when I least expected to meet someone)
The answer was 52.3 to 23!
was it just a physical thing? :eek:
I didn't feel repressed prior to meeting him, just the opposite actually so I don't know :confused:
 

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Bluntly it doesn't look to me like he will pursue you. 6.4 suggests there is too much strife around this, I'm presuming the 'obstacles' were existing partners etc I think it looks like he feels he'd be wise to let the thing with you pass. 59 is just dispersing

similarly 39 to 47 suggests he would just find the situation just too difficult to deal with so probably won't bother. Anyway with these readings I wouldn't be waiting for the phone to ring.....but you're asking what hes feeling and will he pursue and I'd read this as plain 'no'...but hey i could be wrong...


re 52.3, you're presuming there is a why...I think it just describes the feelings probably
 
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Hi Trojan!
Thanks for your opinion!
you are probably right. It would be a very long distance relationship if pursued which is why I didn't want to make any effort to pursue him myself. but it would be entirely romantic if he threw caution to the wind and chased me! hehe!
Now that i think about it, 52.3 is probably just painting a picture of the physical attraction then the splitting apart. I always ask this question when I meet someone new in a weird or unusual way.
I will continue on as usual, but if anything interesting developes I will be sure to drop a note here and update the post...
 

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