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Overall judgment: The casting suggests that you are perceived as too eager to please so that your real qualities stay hidden.
Pocossin, are you saying that her real qualities cannot be seen because of her eagerness to please?
In other words, that she is what we call a people pleaser? She comes off as very agreeable?
In any case, she feels her reputation is at stake.
The text speaks of mutilation and cutting. Marking the person as what? Why is punishment of people mentioned at all? Or does it just indicate a terrible fear of punishment, if we don't conform to the expectations of others?
This line may indicate a difference between what a person really believes and what she feels she may safely say or do. She may have to retract her words and change her opinion when challenged or overpowered, else risk losing face. And sometimes we are held -- or our carriage, whatever that may be, our vehicle -- can be held fast for a time in such a way that we cannot get away.
Her good name is temporarily held captive by other people who may not even know her. She's fearful of saying what she really believes.
Greetings, clarity seekers!
Today I casted a reading and would love to hear your takes on it.
Q.: Dear Yi, please give me insight into how people perceive me (i.e. how I come across).
R.: 38.3 > 14
Sounds a bit ominous... although the concept of divergence with all its consequences hits close to home. Help!
My point of view is that a person will appear differently to different people. Some perceive you one way and some quite another.
We aren't just superficial appearances. The unity of personality behind appearance comes through in the ordinary affairs of life in the smallest things -- even how keys and charms are selected and arranged on a key ring or how vocabulary, phrasing, punctuation, and spacing are used in email. If the self were imprisoned, there would be no divinatory answer to cris's query.
Greetings, clarity seekers!
Today I casted a reading and would love to hear your takes on it.
Q.: Dear Yi, please give me insight into how people perceive me (i.e. how I come across).
R.: 38.3 > 14
Sounds a bit ominous... although the concept of divergence with all its consequences hits close to home. Help!
I don't know what translations others are using but when I look at Wilhelm it appears the I Ching is telling you not to worry about how others perceive you, even when it appears their opinions are not positive.
" Often it seems to [you] as though everything were conspiring against [you]. [You] seee [yourself]checked and hindered in your progress, insulted and dishonored. However, [you] must not let [yourself] be misled, despite this opposition, [you] must cleave to the man with whom [you] know [you] belong. Thus, not withstanding the bad beginning, the matter will end well."
-Wilhelm
I don't think this means you ARE perceived negativly, it's just the I Chings way of smacking us back in line when the ego might have been looking bit of approval. Like if you'd been asking, "Am I pretty?" and gotten this line the I Ching would be saying, "Don't worry, looks aren't everything." Ouch.
-Wilhelm
If Chris does suspect she is perceived negatively than 38.3 may be just the encouragement she needs. On the other hand, I'm just saying if she had not suspected there was any hostility I don't think she needs to get paranoid and think getting 38.3 means that there is.
Rosada
It may be associated with the numerous cases of pious women disfiguring themselves in order to protect their virginity.
Cris! Give us some feed back. Does any of this make sence given your situation?
Rosada
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