How can I incite a greater emotional connection between X and me? 11 1.4. 32

[IrSoria]

Hello again.
I asked the iching how I can incite a greater emotional connection with X.

About 3 weeks ago I have been dating a man older than me, 8 years to be exact.
I like him a lot, but he is extremely serious and introverted.
I have interacted intimately with him and I see that he develops in a more open way.
When we've been at his house, he regularly asks me to pet him and he nestles his head in my lap.
We have not delved into issues such as childhood, insecurity, family etc etc.
I feel a bit weird and inexperienced in this new relationship.
I also consider myself an introvert but not as much as him.
I don't know how to make it open on those issues.
That's where my question comes from
And the Iching answers me with 11 1.4. Mutating to 32.
Line 11.1 tells me that those who are related are advancing.
Aren't we related?
11.4 The approach must be spontaneous, I must refrain from wanting to force this connection on an emotional level.
32. This situation is going to last like this, I must adapt.
I hope you can support me with your comments.

 

[SuperNatural]

The 11th hexagram, called "Prosperity," represents a period of growth and advancement. The first line suggests that in order to foster emotional connection with your partner, it may be helpful to take the initiative and create opportunities for open communication. Be proactive and initiate conversations about topics such as childhood, insecurities, and family. By sharing your own experiences, you may be able to encourage your partner to open up as well.

The fourth line of the 11th hexagram changing into the 32nd hexagram, called "Duration," signifies the importance of cultivating patience and perseverance in building emotional connection. It suggests that it may take time for your partner to fully open up and become more comfortable in expressing emotions. This change indicates that progress is being made, and meaningful emotional connections can be developed over time through consistent effort and understanding.

In summary, the reading suggests that to invite a greater emotional connection with your partner, take the initiative to initiate deeper conversations about personal topics. Be patient and understanding, allowing your partner the time they need to become more open. By implementing these practices, you can foster a stronger emotional bond with him.

I hope this helps