Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
But I have to see him. This time to really get off everything on my chest and ask him to buzz off for good.
Pooja, you know best what you need, but I I find myself asking 'why?' Why do you need to see him face to face? Didn't you already break off your relationhip? And wouldn't a simple email be enought, saying, oh, that you've moved on and are seeing someone else now ... and that it would be best if you two didn't see each other anymore and that he not contact you anymore?... But I have to see him.
.... This time to really get off everything on my chest and ask him to buzz off for good. l prefer to act civilized by saying it face to face. And not ignore him or ghost him.
I will follow ignore him.
This the problem i have with him. I love him. its unconditional but I can't be with him. Maybe in the distant future..as friends? He is complicated. Maybe he is not a sociopath. It is clear that the women in his life allow him to be like this. He is spoilt. I don't want to do a Freudian analysis. He is not a project. I need a partner. He is not the one.Pooja, you know best what you need, but I I find myself asking 'why?' Why do you need to see him face to face? Didn't you already break off your relationhip? And wouldn't a simple email be enought, saying, oh, that you've moved on and are seeing someone else now ... and that it would be best if you two didn't see each other anymore and that he not contact you anymore? Or whatever the right words are for you. I'm just concerned that if he is a true sociopath, that he'll be very good at manipulating you - like making you think you have to meet him face to fact? or that you and he will come away from your meeting without there still being clear boundaries. But, as I said, this is just my concerns, and you'll have to do what feels right.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).