How should I act in this new situation?

[ClavdiaChauchat]

Hi all and nice to meet you!
I've been reading this beautiful blog and first of all I'd like to thank everyone who's reading, commenting and sharing because is really helpful!

I know Yi sinxe years, thanks to a friend who's really good in reading Yi. Now, since one years, I'm reading it alone, so i sometimes face problems in my interpretations!

Two days ago I decided to write to my ex boyfriend, who left me one year ago without no clear explanation. Everything was really fast: we met at work, there was a big attraction between us, we spent days and nights together, he then left the jon, came back to his house (in another country, that was a temporary job), but we still spoke everyday, making plans and meeting us again. Then, after that meeting, which was really intense, out of the blue he changed, disappeared and left me saying "i don't feel good, need to stay alone".

One year later, I wrote him just to know if he felr good and the reaction was reeealy strange: he moved to a new city, has his own restaurant which is not going good due to Coronavirus, he apparently feels better. He invited me to his house to have a dinner together, stay there some days (3hours from my city) and visit together some nice places. I refused. It would be fine meeting him, but for a one-day-meeting, first. He proposed the long-meeting cause now is the cheapest opportunity: I should go there, he would pay one train ticket, and i would stay at his apartment. Money thing..?

I asked Yi how should I act? Result: 62.2.5, 28. Well, i guess, first of all, i don't have to wait that much from this situation. Step by step, let's see, or not? It's not the time for big things. I should stay aware, but gentle with him. I think Yi is ok with my decision not to accepting his invitation. Should i go on this way? The second line is strange: i guess is saying i should take what it comes, also if it's less than i wanted. In one word: adapt. The fifth line confuses me: will i be alone in this? How could friends help me?
The last hex, 28, advises the situation will be far from solved, i guess...I'll need to adjust some things, to modify something, but what exactly? It seems everything too generic!

Not waiting for his answer, i asked Yi if we're going to come back together in a stable relationship again: 39.5, obstruction, line 5, which becomes Humility. We'll face problems, obstacles with that (perhaps the distance?). But there's a possibility, it seems. Here, withdrawal is needed, in this sense that one has to deviate from the obstacle, but still, go on. Am i right? What does this mean? One need also to be organised, to be helped (again, friends. What does this mean to me, to us?): Shall we work together for this o shall I deviate from him?!

Thanks to everyone is going to reply! And sorry for my english, that's not my mother tongue!

 

[Matali]

Hello, yes I think you're right to slow down and keep the relationship light...
In any case, with 62 and 39, there are limits and an obstacle. You may be one of his "friends" mentioned in the lines... It's up to you to see as you move forward step by step, you may discover what the obstacle is, or who is the obstacle? I don't think that's the distance. Sometimes, in fuzzy and uncertain relationships, it's good to let the person come to you... It's up to you

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

Hello, yes I think you're right to slow down and keep the relationship light...
In any case, with 62 and 39, there are limits and an obstacle. You may be one of his "friends" mentioned in the lines... It's up to you to see as you move forward step by step, you may discover what the obstacle is, or who is the obstacle? I don't think that's the distance. Sometimes, in fuzzy and uncertain relationships, it's good to let the person come to you... It's up to you

Thank u so much, Matali! U mean i could only be a friend and no more, right? But this friend's are here to help and face this obstacles.. I'd rather go away, if i could be just a friend for him! I wouldn't cwre to help him, i would just think about me. I think there's still attraction between us, but don't know what type and don't know his i tensions. I also wouldn't act with "humility" if he see me as a friend..Who is the obstacle.. Maybe another woman? I'm now noticing that in the first two results (62 and 39) there are friends! That's really strange. We don't have any commond friend...but apparently I need friends (I'm sure i don't want him as a friend!) in this situation, and if I'm not THE friend of line 39, we both need friends. How should go on with this? Any idea?!

I have to add some infos to this... I also asked Yi what will be his next step:
Once i got 37 UC, the second time 40.3 which becomes 32, the duration. I know i shouldn't have asked this. 37: On one hand it seems he did a step backwards as i refused his invitation (that would match with the necessity to take roles in one family), on the other hand, he will act consequently: he said we stay in touch, we'll meet after this pandemic, we'll find a way to meet us again. Or maybe he's closing himself "at home", like, u don't come, I'll stay here alone without you. That confuses me a lot!
About 40: it could be he wants to get rid of me and that he won't write again, as he didn't reach what he wanted the first time. The line tells he shouldn't cause is not in the position to wait for me, to be an arrivist or an arrogant who deserves everything. This line describes what really happened in real life: now he lives a stable existence, he "arrived" where he wanted. But still, it indicates he doesn't want compromise, maybe.. About 32: if he makes mistake, he will go on making it?! Too semplicistic?!

Thank you!

 

[Matali]

40.3 - 32 : "Perseverance leads to humiliation" this is not a positive line at all. If you didn't want to spend a few days with him, maybe it's for a good reason, good intuition. Things between you two are far from clear. Let him come back to you, without forcing things... But don't worry, he's not the only man on earth, you will meet someone who will suit you...

 

[SuperNatural]

I think you not going to see him is the right thing. Remain calm, poised, and really think this through. Think about what YOU want, and what you need to become the next best version of yourself. Keep a light gentle touch with him and make your presence barely felt. There is more to this situation than meets the eye. I'm sure more will be revealed to you soon. I hope this helps.

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

40.3 - 32 : "Perseverance leads to humiliation" this is not a positive line at all. If you didn't want to spend a few days with him, maybe it's for a good reason, good intuition. Things between you two are far from clear. Let him come back to you, without forcing things... But don't worry, he's not the only man on earth, you will meet someone who will suit you...

Thank u so much! It really helps me! Yes, I'm still sure i had a good intuition.
About this result: someone wants to steal something (the line). And someone fears to loose his/her property (liberation). He might fear to loose his freedom: he indeed felt like this one years ago, due to me. And i have anxiety to loose myself again. We both have stolen us something. I stole his space and time, he stole my love and dignity. We both are the robbers and the man whos being stolen! Wow. I think he took and i too too much from the other last year. That's why we don't want to loose what with have now, which is stable (like a property). We actually didn't really gone through what we lived together! We should face what we lived, and not just temporary, but in a long time, going deeper: The Duration. And this relates to friends as well: we need to act like a "team" if we want to go out of this, like friends, not like robbers!
I'm going to embrace this interpretation! Thanks.

Reading the forum I've seen there is also a "good" interpretation about 40: As it's about an emotion of "release", it could be read in a context of desire, not just sexual. I think this perspective could be integrated in what I've written! There's is still desire to stay together, but fear and obstacles as well. That's in our hands, that's a matter of perspectives and behaviours!


Thank u sooo much!! Now everything's clear!

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

I think you not going to see him is the right thing. Remain calm, poised, and really think this through. Think about what YOU want, and what you need to become the next best version of yourself. Keep a light gentle touch with him and make your presence barely felt. There is more to this situation than meets the eye. I'm sure more will be revealed to you soon. I hope this helps.

Thank u SO MUCH SuperNatural. It helps a lot and it really perfectly integrates what I've already written. I'll think it through, cause I need to go through what we already lived, and not to understand what it could be! Yes: i don't want to be a robber. Don't want to steal him space and time, as i did, invading him too much. And i don't want him to steal my love and my dignity. How can I be thankful? Everything is in its right place!

Yes, I'm discovering new things everyday about this. I think this was destiny: we understand things with time. It requires time, long time: Duration!

I'm not going to contact him again, as I've already turn on a candle in the wind and in the tempest. He already turned on his candle, too. I hope we'll meet us to look us in the eyes, as soon as we'll have sufficient light.

Thank you.

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

Morning everyone,

i have some confusing updates about this situation.
Well, more than a week has passed since I wrote M again, after a silence of more than a year.

Something happened: As I'm searching for a new job, I've been contacted from a firm near his city.
I've been reading this sign as a "destiny sign", and I then decided to write him to tell him this news. But before I asked Yi: Are we going to meet us again? 56 UC. I think the answer is negative... But i wrote him anyway.
I did it friday, he saw my message, read it, but didnt answer yet and I feel he'll never answer to me.

I'm confused. He wanted to see me again. Possibly in his city. And now?
As I'm not receiving an answer, I asked Yi: How this thing between me and M will evolve?!
Answer: 58.2.3.5 - 55. Positive response, but maybe just to me alone, not to us. I think 58 is saying: You just have to accept things as they are, as they come. There are two lakes. Are we? We don't touch each other Well, the last line is open...perhaps, its not over? I read this is an hex of communication (....!).

I think the lines are quite helpful: line 3 is pretty negative: There is chaos is me, and I therefore established a contact with him. I lack of control of my self. Line 5 is also clear: to persevere with a person who brings problems, is not good. I let him dominate me. But I can still go away.

Then, 55. Totally uncomprehensible to me!

Any suggestions? thank u so much in advance!

 

[Matali]

Hello !
My hypothesis for 58.2.3.5 - 55 looks positive but in fact, no... The 3 lines indicate that it is not for the right reasons...
You say "58 two lakes", indeed, that is a fact that appeals to me. Because on this forum, there is someone called Long Yi who gives scholarly explanations that I do not understand BUT, he said that 58 corresponds to two women... And that may be the case. That's what I think, this man must have a woman in his life.

The hexagram 55 is abundance but I think it's for him ! It may be that he will answer you, but with hexagram 56, I am not sure that is a good idea. I would also like to tell you that I understand your situation, you have an open heart and it seeks to express itself, but your tao is your tao. And his tao is something else... It is not that he rejects you ; it's not personal...

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

Hi Matali, thank you so much again...You are probably right and i'll tell you why.

Last week I asked if he had someone else or if he had still contact or has feelings for his ex, which he actually still had last year. The result was 22.3.6-24 and 13.2.4-9 Actually: yes! 22.3.6: all about beauty and humidity, he's probably having sex with another girl. Thought about the ex 'cause of 24. But why did he want to see me? If yes, why did he invite me at his apartment?! he said he lives alone...

The 13.2.4 I got about the ex: Line 2: humiliation cause this girl is in his "clan". I don't think its his ex. She lives in another city, doesn't work with him, they don't see each other. She's probably a collegue! Perhaps already married and with kids...and in a "superior" position, above him. Line 4: There are walls, separation with this girl. But he can't do anything (Or, hex 9, he has to be happy with "crumbs", he can't have that much), he can't fight for her.

I wouldn't think 55 is about him: How could it regard he alone? I asked about me and him...but I don't see us together in this abundance. So this is still quite uncomprehensible Yes, I am trying to reach him, but he doesn't give value to me. As you said, he is not refusing me, he's just occupied with another person!

Still i'd love to understand this 55: Why you wrote about hex 56?

 

[Matali]

Something happened: As I'm searching for a new job, I've been contacted from a firm near his city.
I've been reading this sign as a "destiny sign", and I then decided to write him to tell him this news. But before I asked Yi: Are we going to meet us again? 56 UC. I think the answer is negative... But i wrote him anyway.
I did it friday, he saw my message, read it, but didnt answer yet and I feel he'll never answer to me.

Yes indeed, there are people... I wrote on hexagram 56 because you mentioned it in this post...

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

Yes indeed, there are people... I wrote on hexagram 56 because you mentioned it in this post...

Ops, sorry! Yes. Apparently there is a big contrast between us: He's with a lot of people, and I'm alone in this! Well, he didn't reply, and he's not going to do it, i guess! Still, 55 is not clear. The only thing comes to my mind is that it's a "too much" hex. If something else comes to your mind, let me know

 

[RemRem]

Hi Clavdia!

My name is Rem. Nice to meet you here. Let me share my take on your reading:

1st Question: How should I act?
Hexagram 62.2.5 to 28

62 is Small Exceeding.
It's a bird that stays on the ground so it won't be hunted down.
It seems to suggest the need to consider first before acting on your reconnection with your ex-boyfriend, to stay put and set aside big actions to take.

Take it small and slow (Allows small works)

It's wiser to:
Look and examine the possibilities (actions exceeds in respect)
Be safer than sorry (In loss exceeds in mourning)
And be careful than carefree (In spending exceeds in economy.')

If the relationship was too intense before, with higher expectations (bird flying high), then you must ground your expectations. (Going down is fitting)

Taking control of this situation (Inner Mountain) means
seeing the possible parental issues that went through your interaction (ancestral father, ancestral mother)
So you can follow what takes place when you reconnect (Inner Wind/Wood)

As things is just starting again (Outer Thunder), it's best to examine possible unmet expectations:
(Dense clouds without rain), and become more objective to them (Western altars). Becoming more aware and focused (tethered arrows), you can really see what's unseen in this situation (one living in a cave)

And anticipate what's too much (H28).

So if nothing happens in your reconnection, you can be confident as you are (stand alone without fear)
and not be attached emotionally (withdraws from time without sadness).

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But, if you are both coming back together, there's a possibility of imbalance, of not meeting halfway and the challenge of not getting through (H39).

Emotions or issues can be more common, (Outer Water) and both might feel stuck along the way (Outer Mountain)

The wiser approach is to renew one's approach of treating or expecting from the relationship. (39 Image)

And really get into the relationship as partners (Line 5, partners come), so you can be both more open and let the relationship grow. (Outer Earth)

So you can both complete it (H15) and refine what's too much or too little (15 Image).

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I hope this helps. Good luck, Clavdia!

Rem

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

Hi Clavdia!

My name is Rem. Nice to meet you here. Let me share my take on your reading:

1st Question: How should I act?
Hexagram 62.2.5 to 28

62 is Small Exceeding.
It's a bird that stays on the ground so it won't be hunted down.
It seems to suggest the need to consider first before acting on your reconnection with your ex-boyfriend, to stay put and set aside big actions to take.

Take it small and slow (Allows small works)

It's wiser to:
Look and examine the possibilities (actions exceeds in respect)
Be safer than sorry (In loss exceeds in mourning)
And be careful than carefree (In spending exceeds in economy.')

If the relationship was too intense before, with higher expectations (bird flying high), then you must ground your expectations. (Going down is fitting)

Taking control of this situation (Inner Mountain) means
seeing the possible parental issues that went through your interaction (ancestral father, ancestral mother)
So you can follow what takes place when you reconnect (Inner Wind/Wood)

As things is just starting again (Outer Thunder), it's best to examine possible unmet expectations:
(Dense clouds without rain), and become more objective to them (Western altars). Becoming more aware and focused (tethered arrows), you can really see what's unseen in this situation (one living in a cave)

And anticipate what's too much (H28).

So if nothing happens in your reconnection, you can be confident as you are (stand alone without fear)
and not be attached emotionally (withdraws from time without sadness).

---

But, if you are both coming back together, there's a possibility of imbalance, of not meeting halfway and the challenge of not getting through (H39).

Emotions or issues can be more common, (Outer Water) and both might feel stuck along the way (Outer Mountain)

The wiser approach is to renew one's approach of treating or expecting from the relationship. (39 Image)

And really get into the relationship as partners (Line 5, partners come), so you can be both more open and let the relationship grow. (Outer Earth)

So you can both complete it (H15) and refine what's too much or too little (15 Image).

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I hope this helps. Good luck, Clavdia!

Rem

Hi Rem, nice to meet you. First of all, thank you for the time you used to write your post.
And second: that's a really interesting interpretation.

About Hex 62.2.5 to 28: I see myself in that bird. I was hunted the first time. But not this one! And I'm pretty sure about it. The relationship was indeed too intense.

I am not sure i saw the "possible parental interactions" between us. There are, probably, other people in this, as you can read in the post i wrote yesterday. I therefore think, is not possible to see these interactions: He's interacting with others...! Don't you think so?

About the man in the cave: I think i saw him in time, and this before I entered his cave (his house!). And he is not alone...He had to come out from that cave as a partner to go beyond our obstacles...But he chose something else, i guess!

 

[RemRem]

Hi Rem, nice to meet you. First of all, thank you for the time you used to write your post.
And second: that's a really interesting interpretation.

About Hex 62.2.5 to 28: I see myself in that bird. I was hunted the first time. But not this one! And I'm pretty sure about it. The relationship was indeed too intense.

I am not sure i saw the "possible parental interactions" between us. There are, probably, other people in this, as you can read in the post i wrote yesterday. I therefore think, is not possible to see these interactions: He's interacting with others...! Don't you think so?

About the man in the cave: I think i saw him in time, and this before I entered his cave (his house!). And he is not alone...He had to come out from that cave as a partner to go beyond our obstacles...But he chose something else, i guess!

Hi Clavdia! You're welcome! Happy to share!

About the parental interactions, I remember in psychology that there's a possibility that we sort of experience our current relationships the way we experience our relationship with our parents.

Women to their dads, Men to their moms.

Though this does not apply to all, but given the reading, you can try to look into it. In what way the guy behaves like your dad (or some aspect of your relationship with your dad). It might not be all similar or exact, but it may in some respects. I may be wrong, and you can always look at the symbols much deeper. =)

So the arrow is trying to connect with him. That makes sense! Wow! =)

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

Hi Clavdia! You're welcome! Happy to share!

About the parental interactions, I remember in psychology that there's a possibility that we sort of experience our current relationships the way we experience our relationship with our parents.

Women to their dads, Men to their moms.

Though this does not apply to all, but given the reading, you can try to look into it. In what way the guy behaves like your dad (or some aspect of your relationship with your dad). It might not be all similar or exact, but it may in some respects. I may be wrong, and you can always look at the symbols much deeper. =)

So the arrow is trying to connect with him. That makes sense! Wow! =)

Thank u so much!

I know what you mean about parental interactions, like, "old" schemes we have inherited from our parents, which cause problems in our presents! Yes, i think it could be part of the problem. I'll think about it.

May I ask you where do you see in Hex 62 and/or 28 the issue about parental interactions? About the bird and the arrow: As I'm the bird, he could just feel as an arrow a desire to catch and to control me (like parents do, actually!). And as this time I flew down, i demonstrated, maybe, my own indipendence from his will, the capability also to predict his actions and gain my own space in this.

 

[RemRem]

Ah yes, I actually find it in Line 2 (Line 2 often explains the entire situation referring to our inquiry).

It's like to avoid being hunted (H68), you must avoid this dynamics of control (ancestral father/mother) .
This helps you cut the tendency to be controlled by your boyfriend (not reaching your ruler), and instead understanding his motives and intentions (meeting his minister - minister being the advisers of kings).

Yes, true! as you stay on the ground/being grounded, you can never be controlled by his tendency to "shoot" you, but instead, you'll be the one to "hit" what really is in his head/heart. (Line 5)

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

Ah yes, I actually find it in Line 2 (Line 2 often explains the entire situation referring to our inquiry).

It's like to avoid being hunted (H68), you must avoid this dynamics of control (ancestral father/mother) .
This helps you cut the tendency to be controlled by your boyfriend (not reaching your ruler), and instead understanding his motives and intentions (meeting his minister - minister being the advisers of kings).

Yes, true! as you stay on the ground/being grounded, you can never be controlled by his tendency to "shoot" you, but instead, you'll be the one to "hit" what really is in his head/heart. (Line 5)

Wow, I think you're super in interpreting I Ching!

So, now it's clear why he didn't answer anymore: As he couldn't control me again last week (I refused his invitation), he's now "offended". So, i was right and I met his intentions in a proper way.

Should I leave him a last message about this/us or no words are needed?

 

[RemRem]

Thanks, Clavdia! I so love doing Yijing interpretations.

As per your reading, it says 62, allow small works. So if leaving him a last mesage is a "great work" of explaining too much words, then choose otherwise - better not to leave any message.

With 28, your dynamic with him is too soaked with emotions (ridgepole warping, H28), it's wiser to stand for yourself (stand alone without fear) and get yourself out of this situation (withdraw from time without sadness.)

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

Thanks, Clavdia! I so love doing Yijing interpretations.

As per your reading, it says 62, allow small works. So if leaving him a last mesage is a "great work" of explaining too much words, then choose otherwise - better not to leave any message.

With 28, your dynamic with him is too soaked with emotions (ridgepole warping, H28), it's wiser to stand for yourself (stand alone without fear) and get yourself out of this situation (withdraw from time without sadness.)

I'll definitely follow this advice! Thank you so much again.

 

[RemRem]

I'll definitely follow this advice! Thank you so much again.

Thank you so much, Clavdia! I wish all goes well for you.

Btw, would you mind if I ask for a feedback? Been giving readings for old and new friends, I'd appreciate yours, if that's OK?

Thank you again, and happy to meet you here! Blessings!

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

Thank you so much, Clavdia! I wish all goes well for you.

Btw, would you mind if I ask for a feedback? Been giving readings for old and new friends, I'd appreciate yours, if that's OK?

Thank you again, and happy to meet you here! Blessings!

Of course! In one month or so?

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

Briefly update:

Well, as it has been said, there was much more that meets the eye!
The guy just disappeared, as one day i wrote him again. Actually I wanted to risk and see him again, as I received a job offer near his city. So, there's been the opportunity, but as I told him, he simply ignore me funny enough! I then left him a "last message", saying I felt and knew that I needed to write him again to understand if the first time we broke up was something circunstancial or not. It wasn't. He's just the way he is.


Some days ago i dreamt about him. I was in his city, not directly searching for him. I was alone, but not well dressed, like, that I've been to the sea, so quite informal dressed just hanging around the city.
I then entered some little and tiny streets and see a restaurant where i entered, not because I was hungry, i just entered. And then I met him: he was well dressed, working as usual at the bar, but quite tired, and extremely thin. He saw me, but I wen away. It could be i felt ashamed for my dress (!).

He says something in the dream as he sees my but I can't remember what. I think he was internally feeling bad, but externally looks good, well dressed, even though he was thin. In my case, that was the opposite: I externally look like not good, but i felt good, as I had the courage to walk away. Even though I did it cause i felt ashamed.

I asked Yi, what does this dream represents?

Yi says 41.3, 26. That's incredibly true!! I'm astonished. I had to diminish my interest in this person, and I think I did it by walking away from him, in the dream too. The hex speaks about the external semplicity: that's me, even though my dress was not good, my feelings are, I've been true and sincere in this. At the opposite, the hex speaks about taking away internal force to compensate the meanness of the appearance: that's he, who did look externally good, but internally felt not that good. He sacrifices feelings perhaps? Towards him or who?

I controlled my instincts. And then the line: well, no words needed! As someone said, we were three, not just me and him. And I was the one who walked away, in the lines and in the dream! I think I left something "lower" to move on something better, higher. The girl who has taken my place suits him. But Yi says, even though I'm isolated, I'll find someone that suits me thanks Yi!

Any thoughts about 26?

Thank u!

 

[Matali]

Briefly update:

Well, as it has been said, there was much more that meets the eye!
The guy just disappeared, as one day i wrote him again. Actually I wanted to risk and see him again, as I received a job offer near his city. So, there's been the opportunity, but as I told him, he simply ignore me funny enough! I then left him a "last message", saying I felt and knew that I needed to write him again to understand if the first time we broke up was something circunstancial or not. It wasn't. He's just the way he is.


Some days ago i dreamt about him. I was in his city, not directly searching for him. I was alone, but not well dressed, like, that I've been to the sea, so quite informal dressed just hanging around the city.
I then entered some little and tiny streets and see a restaurant where i entered, not because I was hungry, i just entered. And then I met him: he was well dressed, working as usual at the bar, but quite tired, and extremely thin. He saw me, but I wen away. It could be i felt ashamed for my dress (!).

He says something in the dream as he sees my but I can't remember what. I think he was internally feeling bad, but externally looks good, well dressed, even though he was thin. In my case, that was the opposite: I externally look like not good, but i felt good, as I had the courage to walk away. Even though I did it cause i felt ashamed.

I asked Yi, what does this dream represents?

Yi says 41.3, 26. That's incredibly true!! I'm astonished. I had to diminish my interest in this person, and I think I did it by walking away from him, in the dream too. The hex speaks about the external semplicity: that's me, even though my dress was not good, my feelings are, I've been true and sincere in this. At the opposite, the hex speaks about taking away internal force to compensate the meanness of the appearance: that's he, who did look externally good, but internally felt not that good. He sacrifices feelings perhaps? Towards him or who?

I controlled my instincts. And then the line: well, no words needed! As someone said, we were three, not just me and him. And I was the one who walked away, in the lines and in the dream! I think I left something "lower" to move on something better, higher. The girl who has taken my place suits him. But Yi says, even though I'm isolated, I'll find someone that suits me thanks Yi!

Any thoughts about 26?

Thank u!

Hello Claudia!
Good news for you ! With 41.3 - 26 : Yi announces that you will meet someone who will be complementary with you. And it will be much better
26 "The Taming Power of the Great" : it's you right now because you're in control with this separation. It means also a latent power, a great accumulation. And "Not to eat at home is good fortune" : may be an idea to see friends and have good time, meet new people...


Two important points to help me in deciphering hexagrams : I see 58 in a very different way now !!!
And as your have asked the question about your dream and as Yi answered something else, it's further proof to me that Yi doesn't always answer the question directly : Yi answers what he wants to answer, what's most important to know...

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

Hello Claudia!
Good news for you ! With 41.3 - 26 : Yi announces that you will meet someone who will be complementary with you. And it will be much better
26 "The Taming Power of the Great" : it's you right now because you're in control with this separation. It means also a latent power, a great accumulation. And "Not to eat at home is good fortune" : may be an idea to see friends and have good time, meet new people...


Two important points to help me in deciphering hexagrams : I see 58 in a very different way now !!!
And as your have asked the question about your dream and as Yi answered something else, it's further proof to me that Yi doesn't always answer the question directly : Yi answers what he wants to answer, what's most important to know...

Hi Matali! Thank you! Do you still see 58 as two women? I don't get your point about Yi answering in a different way from what i asked

 

[Matali]

Hi Matali! Thank you! Do you still see 58 as two women? I don't get your point about Yi answering in a different way from what i asked

Well, I have to think about 58, but the two lakes may be - sometimes - two women indeed...

About line 41.3 :
"When three people journey together,
Their number decreases by one.
When one man journeys alone,
He finds a companion." (Wengu tartarie)
In my opinion, it's really the announcement of your meeting with someone that will be made for you. And this shows the couple that is already formed with your ex. But you have deciphered according to the question of your dream, so if it corresponds - for you - to your dream, it is your feeling.

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

Well, I have to think about 58, but the two lakes may be - sometimes - two women indeed...

About line 41.3 :
"When three people journey together,
Their number decreases by one.
When one man journeys alone,
He finds a companion." (Wengu tartarie)
In my opinion, it's really the announcement of your meeting with someone that will be made for you. And this shows the couple that is already formed with your ex. But you have deciphered according to the question of your dream, so if it corresponds - for you - to your dream, it is your feeling.

Thank you very much for your precious insight!

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

Edit about the whole cast: I see the second hex, and the whole cast, as a long term on, as usual with Yi!

I think it's saying I will find someone else who really suits me, but not now!

 

[Matali]

Edit about the whole cast: I see the second hex, and the whole cast, as a long term on, as usual with Yi!

I think it's saying I will find someone else who really suits me, but not now!

Dear Claudia, I don't know how to see this kind of futur . But maybe with Long Yi in MP, he will answer you on the year 2021.... May be Don't worry