How to find help: 51.1 - 16

[Cometta]

Hi,

I am trying to figure out what steps I should take to progress in my career, a pattern keeps showing in the oracle answers: get help, find allies, see someone you respect.
I asked the IC "what should I do to get the help of X?" I got 51.5 changing to 16.

Hex 51: Thunder
Shock, Arouse, shake up, groundbreaker, wake up.
Line 1:
Shock comes-oh, oh! Then follow laughing words-ha, ha! = good fortune.
Hex 16: Enthusiasm, anticipation
Whip up enthusiasm, rally your forces, and move boldly forward.
This is a time for instinct, not intellect -- the Thunder from the Beneath.
The fanyao of 51.1 is 16.1
Finding structure and borders/ Needing structure and borders.

I have read in post from wise Rosada that the first line describes the initial situation when the question is being asked. I guess that I am anxious about getting the help, but after the shock a new life emerges.
Also the shock will cause me to reconsider my thoughts.
So is it that I will get the help despite my worry?
Or,
I will not get his help, but after the shock I will see things from a different perspective that is more aligned with my greater good?

I'd be grateful for your precious knowledge and kindness.

Dreams

 

[Hans_K]

H51.1 <>H16
You want too much too soon.
Thunder as the lower trigram changes to Earth because of the moving yang line on the 1st position. This position is about plans and ideas and here you want to push those plans and ideas and express them to the outside world too soon when it is not yet the time. The change to Earth shows that these plans and ideas have yet to develop.
H16 is Thunder over Earth. It is the time of early spring. The time when the life energy (Thunder) sprouts the seed in the soil (Earth). Nothing is visible yet, but you know that something is going on and soon will show itself.

This would be my interpretation. Take what resonates and leave the rest

 

[Cometta]

Thank you Hans, I really appreciate your knowledge of the elements.
It's true that I feel desperate (waiting seems irresponsible), and exausted, I don't know neither how to develop these ideas.

 

[Hans_K]

Thank you Hans, I really appreciate your knowledge of the elements.
It's true that I feel desperate (waiting seems irresponsible), and exausted, I don't know neither how to develop this ideas.

It is not something you have to do or think about, but you have to let it happen. Stop fighting the situation and yourself.

 

[Cometta]

Yes sir!
It was a shock but to the point.

Thank you so much!

 

[Hans_K]

Yes sir!
It was a shock but to the point.

Thank you so much!

Sorry, English is not my native language, so if it somehow came across as rude or too direct, that was not my intention.

 

[Cometta]

I know.
Your invitation to trust more is just awesome!

 

[rosada]

A different interpretation -
Rather than advice to wait I see these lines as saying the person whose help you are seeking may be surprised by your request but don’t let that stop you. You may just have to suddenly drop in on them but if you are brief and clear as a bolt of lightening they may respond with 16. Enthusiasm.

(I see in your first sentence you say you got 51.5 rather than 51.1?)

 

[Cometta]

Sorry, typo. It is 51.1

I see what you mean Rosada. It's curious because that is how I got the job first time with him, I just appeared out of nowhere, full of enthusiasm and ready to do miracles. Even though I didn't give any specifics, he told someone at that time I was passionate. I couldn't believe it has worked.
I wish I know how to do that again, this time I am not confident and ashamed to ask for help.
My respect and appreciation for his integrity didn't change. So I was thinking of a casual meeting where he could give me some of his wisdom. If he has something in mind and offers a collaboration that would be magic.
Next week I'll be seeing him, meantime I have to prepare myself. This is what Hans was talking about I think; time to center myself, contemplate on the overall landscape and immerse myself in it.
Maybe I am the one who should make an offer? That way I understand it must be "brief and clear" as you suggest.
Thank you for reminding me of this beautiful memory.

 

[Cometta]

Hello everyone,
I hope you are all doing well and having a sweet life.

I am here for the update.
So following this conversation I just popped in his office, he wasn't there. Some of the people working for him (I used to appreciate but found out later they don't like me) were just surprised. I felt like a threat for them because as always I deal directly with the boss without consulting them.

I sent a message and waited a bit but had no answer. His Assistant told me he called twice but said nothing about me.
Anyway, I couldn't be upset and was grateful for the time I spent meditating because it brought me peace of mind in the middle of an embarrassing situation.

I had a resting night and was having my coffee the next day and thinking that I should be proud of myself and stop forcing things to happen to the detriment of my self respect when he called back (saturday 8:30) ; part of me felt satisfaction, the other one puzzled about whether I should answer. So I didn't and was just calm and happy with my decision.
Came back to home last night, my phone uncharged was off till 11:00 when I received a message from him asking me to call him back this morning.
I didn't know what to do. I had a night full of many strange and clear dreams, I was intending to do some researches when I found his message.
I was still confused by my dreams, the humour of things coming back when left alone and the fear of missing a chance, I didn't call till an hour ago but had no answer.
The good news is that I feel happy and proud of myself for knowing what I really want and my willingness to accept things as they are. The bad news is I am still dependant on others for food and shelter and feel ashamed. Even though they seem reassured I could take care of them if needed, but I don't like to be a burden and I am happiest when I roam the earth independently.
This is another subject I am trying to clarify with I ching, I will keep you informed.

So thank you for being part of my life in a dark moment. Without your insights and generous sharings I could never know this feeling of love.

Dreams