Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
I briefly dated a coworker and in no uncertain terms cut off all ties to the best of my ability months and months ago. He has not stopped pining and trying to make contract. It is unsettling. I first asked Yi what should I do about this? and received 1.1.3.4 > 59. I didn't know what to make of this outside of don't act and there is someone "dancing in the abyss." Startling image for what I am going through with this.
So I asked a more specific question... what can I do to get him to leave me alone forever? 23uc. Am I being told that there is nothing I can do? I just have to live with this? It all seems pretty bleak. This entire time I have taken the position of no contact. Even making polite eye contact when passing in the halls clearly gives him hope and makes him try even harder.
I briefly dated a coworker and in no uncertain terms cut off all ties to the best of my ability months and months ago. He has not stopped pining and trying to make contract. It is unsettling. I first asked Yi what should I do about this? and received 1.1.3.4 > 59. I didn't know what to make of this outside of don't act and there is someone "dancing in the abyss." Startling image for what I am going through with this
So I asked a more specific question... what can I do to get him to leave me alone forever? 23uc. Am I being told that there is nothing I can do? I just have to live with this? It all seems pretty bleak. This entire time I have taken the position of no contact. Even making polite eye contact when passing in the halls clearly gives him hope and makes him try even harder.
He moved to my neighborhood, hangs out at places he knows I liked to go for walks, tries to strike up conversation via text or in the break room, etc. even after I made it clear that I want to be left alone. All social media was blocked ages ago. My close coworker friends know, but people in general have a hard time picturing his behavior feeling creepy and threatening because he’s a “nice guy.�I am actively seeking a new job and my friend/coworker who is on his team offered to say something to him about it. Im considering letting her. In the meantime I’m looking forward to the day I have a new place to work. I’m still mulling over suggestions in this thread. My instincts have been to just continue to ignore it.
Looking internally at my own issues will hopefully become easier when I can feel less stressed about this.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).