How to move on from my ex

[Kiaben]

Hello! I am new here. My story:

I feel trapped on the situation with my ex. We don't talk anymore but It's stucked on my head.
I asked for help to move on from my ex
The answer was 11.5>5

Line 5 Imperial princess given in marriage = a sacrifice for peace and goodwill. Changes to (5)

At first I thought that I could be the Princess, waiting for a marriage but what If I am the sovereign? Maybe the advice is to sacrifice what doesn't belong to me anymore for both of us.
Or maybe that I should sacrifice my pride in order to talk and be peaceful? What do you think? How could I clarify this?

 

[rosada]

Peaceful Waiting..
I see this as suggesting that you maintain a very calm peaceful attitude about the whole experience. Speak pleasantly of him if someone asks - as much as possible don’t be angry or sad or feed any emotional attachment. This too shall pass. And while you’re Waiting eat, drink and be merry!

 

[Kiaben]

Peaceful Waiting..
I see this as suggesting that you maintain a very calm peaceful attitude about the whole experience. Speak pleasantly of him if someone asks - as much as possible don’t be angry or sad or feed any emotional attachment. This too shall pass. And while you’re Waiting eat, drink and be merry!

Thank you, Rosada!
Yes! It's a possibility but what about the line? I don't know mmmm

So i asked what is the best course of action to move on and I got hex 19 unchanging
Approach to what?
Hex 55.5.6>13

My interpretation is that:
(Line 5 A colorful sky after a storm = blessings and fame draw near, good fortune)
after all, I will be lucky and see the real situation but
(Line 6 Having abundance in the house but no connection to others = for three years seeing nothing, misfortune)
I shouldn't isolate myself (hex 13)

 

[rosada]

In 11.5 I see you as being the sovereign directing your inner feelings to be calm and patient and 5. Wait for the real partner to come along.
Likewise I think 19 is encouraging you do what you know is best and again to be patient and particularly not to jump into a new relationship too soon.
I think 5.5.6 - 13 is saying enjoy your friendships and again don't be too quick to go from enjoying being single to fretting about being single!

All in all I see these hexagrams as saying not to focus on the old love and not to be stressed about finding some one new right away either. Have fun with friends and who knows, perhaps a good friendship will later evolve into romance.