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How do I move on from hating friends with children? 13 unchanging.
Hexagram 7 means grieving and links with possibilities of stripping away the old.I also asked IChing please comment on my intent to quit trying for a baby. I received 7.3>46
Is oracle saying that I am guided by wrong thoughts, and giving up is not the right thing? Very confused.
Hi OlgaThey don’t get pregnant, we do. It’s another step towards cancellation of women’s specificity. we mustn’t allow that!
Hi OlgaNo, California is no forerunner and I am not confused between conception and giving birth. Sorry to disappoint you but this language distortion is part of a wider mechanism to crush women.
Men don’t have vaginas, women don’t have penises, two men or two women can’t have children of their own, and men certainly can’t get pregnant. It’s as simple as that. They contribute but it’s women who get pregnant.
To say that you are both expecting, that would be couple inclusion. But pregnant only concerns the female body.
(female=vagina)
California
What California does is detaching birth from the female body, so that people get convinced that it’s ok for rich sterile couples or rich single men to buy children from poor women and say “We are pregnant”. No, you are not. You are just stealing someone else’s child.
Hi Olga
You are right 'Men don't have vaginas, and women don't have penises'.
Oh I read this after writing the above! lol. As for your reading: don't concentrate on what you don't have anymore. Avoid this tension and come to peace with your life. Then you'll find a useful, new way to spend your energy, as indicated in 25.2.I was already told by someone’s husband that I have no idea what it is to be truly tired. Oh well maybe I don’t, but I don’t need to spoken to like that. So I think I’m just going to distance myself from them and get closer to those in my social circle who are in the same position.
I also asked So what do I concentrate on now since I’m not going to have a family? And received 25.1.2>6.
It tells me to re-evaluate my plans, goals and dreams. I understand that. But the question was to see if I could be hinted on a particular situation worth concentrating my life energy on. What do you think?
I respect your viewpoint, but see no devaluation in the statement; rather a form of appreciation for the woman's ability to conceive and nurture by being by her side. Compare it to the traditional "spreading one's seeds" mindset where the man would be proud of impregnating as many women as possible without following through.They don’t get pregnant, we do. It’s another step towards cancellation of women’s specificity. we mustn’t allow that!
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).