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London.
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United Kingdom
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I have been waiting and chasing a guy for many months, a really not fulfilling relationship.
He was answering and nurturing our connexion just enough to keep me hooked I think. I asked him many times to clarifie what was going on on his side, making my intentions and feelings clearer and clearer and he asked me to wait, said he has problem in life and problem at work. After 3 months of not seing each other because of distance and his business, 2 months waiting for him to speak up, and many different attempts to help him to open I went really mad, really sad that he didn't say anything about us or what he wanted for the relationship. My last move was an intense message between a love declaration and a break up explaining that I couldn't continue this way, the communication was going more and more paralyzed.
It was 5 days ago but it feel like it was months ago, I have been struggling for so long, opening my old wounds and not feeling heard at all.
But childly or sadly I'm still hoping that he will contact me again with better intentions... And I want to get over this continuous longing.
I asked the Yi how to stop waiting for him?
I got 21.1.2.6.
I guess 21 is what I tried to achieve by telling him many times I was suffering and it wasn't"t possible for me to continue like that. I tried to live the relationship in many ways and many attempts to make it clarifie his point of view and feelings, but he never did.
21.1 I tried 5 months ago to explain him my point of view and where I stood in the relationship, my hopes and my early feelings, he said that our link was important to him and didn't want me to suffer.
21.2 I went totally mad at some point and had some angry words quite violent I think, and sometimes I feel guilty to have lost my temper. It seems to have been deserved even if I was mad.
21.6 He didn't change anything in his behavior and closed himself more, once he said that my feeling were inappropriate but never said anything about his and the why of his attitude. I guess it represent the final stage of my attempt to clarify and make something out of our connexion.
change to 40...
I guess I have to return to myself, because I don't see anything else to do, I already came back to him many times expecting something changed for the better, or even a clear F... Off.
I have to pardon him maybe too.
I understand the global meaning of the reading but I don't get how it is helping me to stop waiting....
Because I am still hoping that in time he will come back to me and they lived happily ever after...
I feel so weak and sad, do you think I should asked other questions to the yi?
To clarify that for me?
Thank you
He was answering and nurturing our connexion just enough to keep me hooked I think. I asked him many times to clarifie what was going on on his side, making my intentions and feelings clearer and clearer and he asked me to wait, said he has problem in life and problem at work. After 3 months of not seing each other because of distance and his business, 2 months waiting for him to speak up, and many different attempts to help him to open I went really mad, really sad that he didn't say anything about us or what he wanted for the relationship. My last move was an intense message between a love declaration and a break up explaining that I couldn't continue this way, the communication was going more and more paralyzed.
It was 5 days ago but it feel like it was months ago, I have been struggling for so long, opening my old wounds and not feeling heard at all.
But childly or sadly I'm still hoping that he will contact me again with better intentions... And I want to get over this continuous longing.
I asked the Yi how to stop waiting for him?
I got 21.1.2.6.
I guess 21 is what I tried to achieve by telling him many times I was suffering and it wasn't"t possible for me to continue like that. I tried to live the relationship in many ways and many attempts to make it clarifie his point of view and feelings, but he never did.
21.1 I tried 5 months ago to explain him my point of view and where I stood in the relationship, my hopes and my early feelings, he said that our link was important to him and didn't want me to suffer.
21.2 I went totally mad at some point and had some angry words quite violent I think, and sometimes I feel guilty to have lost my temper. It seems to have been deserved even if I was mad.
21.6 He didn't change anything in his behavior and closed himself more, once he said that my feeling were inappropriate but never said anything about his and the why of his attitude. I guess it represent the final stage of my attempt to clarify and make something out of our connexion.
change to 40...
I guess I have to return to myself, because I don't see anything else to do, I already came back to him many times expecting something changed for the better, or even a clear F... Off.
I have to pardon him maybe too.
I understand the global meaning of the reading but I don't get how it is helping me to stop waiting....
Because I am still hoping that in time he will come back to me and they lived happily ever after...
I feel so weak and sad, do you think I should asked other questions to the yi?
To clarify that for me?
Thank you