Clarity,
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London.
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United Kingdom
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Thank you so much Legume, I was anxious to understand these castings. About 3rd casting with unchanging 14 , I wrote ''plan'' because it seemed like they all knew what he was going to do and they all left us alone and a girl told me what his script was going to use since he did the same with her (she said...), she said he would have written to me and invited me to some home. She also said he had always liked me and that we are all ''bodies'' to him and the problem is his head. Actually I had the opportunity to leave, and if i knew i would have accepted, but it's over, it's past now. Another friend of mine is instead protective, she said he's not that interested and that he wants only the available person for his needs. The fact is that he never really disappeared totally from my life, and that night he didn't want to let me go.... So you are actually saying he would really change? My friend says people don't change and I have to open my eyes, I am very influenced by what she said. Actually, I think that he may not change but I may say things straight anyways, and I just don't want him to take the control over me but he acts so shallow that I can't even tell him things straight. When i mentioned him disappearing he lied saying ''i worked'' (he was with some other girls cuz he couldn't afford being refused by me) and he asked me why i didnt reply to his lame short message like ''hey'' said one time without insisting XD. that was so funny and creepy at the same time.I don't know what things will be like, if he will disappear again for a while since im ignoring him or if we will have something more, he kinda scares me since he is way too physical after a lot of time he wasn't in my life.Your last sentence about what was said in a previous thread hit me inside...''focus on what you have instead of what u dont have'' more or less, so i should give him a chance, should I? and to mention u, to release from the evil past and build things up from the start? Perhaps he will be generous, even if my friend says he won't change.Maybe. I guess this is up to me right now, and I shouldnt be influenced by others. I am actually anxious because he may tend to be stubborn and insist...I need a break from him.CASTING ONE about the guy I cared about who disappeared with the sea waves (and other girls I bet): Indeed, line 4 is totally referring to me, I'm thinking about him but im trying to detach with mind and I'm trying not to be angry. I'd just have to be like all these guys in order to live better and understand them , sigh.What I'd like to know if we will reconnect, and yeh, I will keep calm and accept that behavior (lol, don't know how this will last), limiting the space though, as u said, just to show i'm not liking him if he doesn't answer my message.Actually I commented on an old post of mine on social mine, mentioning that kind of behaviour, lol, with a friend... I wonder if he will see that and understand it's about ppl like him...CASTING TWO: the return... oh I don't know if he has something to apologize for, or maybe he does a few things but I still haven't opened my eyes because I know little about him- perhaps some lie? (Or the fact he started liking pictures of half naked girls? ahah)wow, I also thought that it is about opening myself to him and rising above difficulties but I don't know if this is worth the game. Hmm it's the guy I had done a previous casting on, in which I asked if I could trust him or not(the one with 52 with some changing lines)how will it evolve between me and X until the end of the summer? 52.4.5 > 33i think your decision not to write to him anymore is reflected in this cast, you’re keeping yourself still and don’t let your words be cause for any additional regret. the image: Thus the superior man keeps the inferior man at a distance, Not angrily but with reserve - could be both, about you withdrawing from engaging in communication, but also about some inner work. maybe, as you say, even if you’ll eventually reconnect, within lines of 33, you’ll know how maintain the right „space”, so to speak, in your dealings with him?how will things evolve between me and Y during the whole summer? 24.5 > 3Wilhelm comments here: When the time for return has come, a man should not take shelter in trivial excuses, but should look within and examine himself. And if he has done something wrong he should make a noblehearted resolve to confess his fault. No one will regret having taken this road.does he have something to apologise for? or maybe he just needs to be given a "fair" chance? and at the same time there’s the idea of hexagram 3, difficulties at the beginning, sprouting. possibly you’ll find some connection with this person, and who knows, maybe something will grow out of it?how will things evolve with him? > 14 ucinteresting, about mr Ghost. i like Ewald’s translation for this one: Noble presence, a foundation for progress. and commentary: Being there in a magnanimous way. This will help progress.so maybe it’s about either one or both of you being there for the other in some new way, as if raising above the past „evil” and learning to relate from a place of kindness and generosity of some sort? and from the start of this thread - could it be about shifting the attention from what's not there, or what's missing, to focusing on what's actually of value here (as well as within yourself)? btw, not sure i understand what plan did your friends help him with and why though?
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).