I am very worried.

[jeanystar]

Dear Anonymous...
Relax....the first thing I would tell you to do (very gently) is to get hold of yourself...dont let another person have your self-esteem in his back pocket!! Take a bath, take a walk, get your heart in a peaceful place....YOU are the source of your relationships and if learn to be solid and steady in your self-appraisal, the relationships will reflect that.It sounds like you need to nurture yourself....Jealousy is a very painful place to be

Hex 19 with lines 1 and 2 doesnt seem like any reason to be upset to me! Would seem like a beginning rather than an ending..perhaps a crisis of sorts, but one that can yield a newness if you meet it with courage.
26.3 is not a negative reading either..time to meet the challenge ..I suspect the challenge has more to do with you than with him.....But he may also be practicing self-defense right now by keeping a little distance. Be aware of the dangers (perhaps of how destructive losing your cool can be) and go forward to your goal. Jealousy makes us want to "possess the man" but I believe a more valuable goal is to become self-possessed..which takes practice. Dont worry so much, love yourself! Everybody makes mistakes.
Let me know what happens.

 

[heylise]

Hex.19 has to do with seeing and accepting the other just the way he/she is. Another way to translate Lin is 'oversee'.
I think it is an advice: accept him, and also accept yourself. Let him be how he is, and you be how you are. That is the way to near closest to each other.
An advice means: there is an opening. If everything was lost, the Yi would not come with an advice.
For a relation, this is a very positive hexagram. If you manage to connect like Lin, it gives great hopes for happiness together.

Lin changes to Kun, hex.2. Acceptance which is the cause for an abundance of growth.

I think you got a beautiful answer. That is: if you can put the advice into practice.

LiSe