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If you have an example of how a I Ching reading turned out right in a romance issue, can you please share it?
Hi ataraxis,But, sometimes I have this moments of doubt. I ask myself if the I Ching has been really showing me the correct path. I know decisions are always up to me but sometimes I'm afraid I relied too much on the I Ching.
Right for how long? IC is a book of seasons. Romance (31) and an enduring relationship (32) don't always share the same flower bed.
How long past romance should one endure?
Thanks rodaki! I think I know what you mean. I try to consult I-Ching only when I'm in an 'ataraxis'-like state. But that doesn't always happen. My fear is that I-Ching can give me a foggy view based on my emotions at the time.i think that's a good question ataraxis (love your name btw ) the next is that -as long as I believe that- Yi speaks, the question becomes: do I want to listen? do i really want to see and/or handle the truth of the matter, accepting that it might not be all rosy .
It isn't the Yi that is unreliable, but the moods of the love sick heart are never constant or ultimately reliable. The Yi is best as objective information like a wise counselor.
In my experience, the Yi Oracle offered me better advice than I could appreciate in matters of the heart.
meng, I don't mean big results like "lived happily ever after" because, as you said, IC is a book of seasons. I ask myself about simple achievements through IC in romance issues. For instance, I wonder if the I-Ching advised to wait for things to come and they really came. I wonder if when it tells you to wait and do nothing a solution eventually appears. Do you think IC is probably right? As we're dealing with emotions...
If reading your journal of past Oracles about this one single relationship causes you doubt: You are clearly sailing upon storm tossed seas which only happens when both the relationship is very dear to you AND your heart is interfering with your calm.
You're absolutely right. My heart is interfering with my calm.
The best response you can get is something of the likes of 12.5>>35. Yet getting such an Oracle would drive anyone who got it to worry and distraction if it is at all an accurate reflection of the situation.
12.5 is in my journal at least 2 times but I can't remember if I have the 12.5>35 pair. That's such an optimistic and happy view But you're right, one can get really anxious because of promising readings...
It is your emotions that are unable to be focus and be Ok.
In such situations, the best you can do is change your perspective from that of the land where you expect to see clearly and keep all on the level; to that of the sailor where everything is rolling and buffeted by waves but still quite normal and as expected.
Oh, just loved what you said Thank you so much for your kind and wise words. I want so desperately that everything goes okay when I should be like a sailor in the sea.
"However, true greatness is not impaired by temptations. He who remains in touch with the time that's dawning, and with its demands, is prudent enough to avoid all pitfalls, and remains blameless." WB 1.3
"Therefore it's necessary constantly to remain mindful of the end. If we permit ourselves to drift along, we come together and are parted again as the day may determine. If on the other hand a man fixes his mind on an end that endures, he will succeed in avoiding the reefs that confront the closer relationships of people." WB 54
Excellent, thank you
I believe the Yi is loaded with good relationship advice that's frequently interpreted incorrectly, leading to all kinds of unintended complications and some out-and-out relational disasters.
I personally do not find the Yi very useful for anything involving long term planning (...)
I'm a newbie with I-Ching but I always had that idea in my mind: it doesn't work well for long term planning.
the focus is directed to a proper mental and emotional adjustment now. If that's accomplished, the future literally takes care of itself, in a way that you can look back on without remorse. Of course that doesn't imply that any of us are competent to do that continuously, but at least Yi gives reliable guidelines to follow, should we choose to.
Oh! Thank you very, very much for your words They surely gave me a new view and encouragement.
Cheers
Oh, just loved what you said Thank you so much for your kind and wise words. I want so desperately that everything goes okay when I should be like a sailor in the sea.
We really became a family and lived together for 5 years. I have plenty of experiences when Yi gave me more than helpful advices.
My opinion is that Yi never mistakes, except if we keep asking, not being prepared to accept the outcome which is not compatible to our wishes. : (
Clarity,
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United Kingdom
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