Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
My x-wife it seems, stopped loving me, then liking me. It didn´t stop there.
Her attitude and lack of feelings for me developed into actively bitching me
Whatever made her stop loving me after 18 years of struggle shoulder to shoulder, she hasn´t made clear Mind you, she says it´s my fault.
She sneaked off to what I considered my good old friend frnend since 30 years and either seduced him or was seduced. Probably it´s been going on "skypin"
Several moths later I was living alone and he came flying over as my guest. He came up to me and after an hour, he said that it was something he had to tell me..
What I heard paralyzed me with a pfysical pain that was real and different from other pains. I had no control over my thoughts, how to react or how I was expected to react. I was utterly destroyed. There were strong feelings of being humiliated, disrespected and abused.
opened my home for him, he lived in my family for several months. I arranged a job for him at my company
Like a fool I could only say: This came very unexpected.. Very unexpected.
I still couldnt understand or recognize my x-wifes behavior.
I decided that he was truthfull about what actually had ocurred , but lies made the story inconcistent.
I was absolutely dying of yellousy, my whole body was num of the pain - I felt embarressed and ashamed for not being able to make her want to stay with me
In my head I saw her all "done" up to attract him. Swinging her hair and cuddling up near him. He made a joint and then she stoned out of her head, starved after starving me sexually for three years. Not a single time has she forgotten and made an exeption.
. But I had to work - very pfysicly hard work and dangerous. Often very long but not easy hours I gave 80% of my wages for her to pay the bills and necessary expenses. Still she treated me only like an unwelcome hallucination. Have learnt she has told people that Ihardly gave any money to her. Those people have only disgust for me and no interest in my version
He got it all! And he said he is sorry..Then he says he is moving in with my exwife and my two kids - in "our" home. The rent from his flat in London would pay his way so no work.
-Repetedly you say you are sorry, you didn´t think i´d mind.-
She told me you didn´t mind. Now he says she was lying to make him **** her. I
- If you are my friend and want to stay that way, my voice was clear, it´s not an option for you to **** my "wife".Getting dizzy when adrenalin overdosed in me.
-If you han respected me just one bit you could have taken the troubble to pick up the phone and asked me.
I´d say you probably got an extra ich from ****ing , taking over my woman!
I have known him for 30 years. Know what turns him on. The hysterical giggeling that is satisfaction from having outmanovered a victim.
He must not meve in with my family, I cant see how I could live with that.I have begged her to drop him. The fact that i know him makes me sick. I m 50. Bitter because right at the time it´s possible to enjoy my family more, I loose them and also my pride, masculinity, self-esteem." will he move in and will they stay happy?" If he moves in my prognosis is that it will end in separation. The time it will take can vary. I have no idea.
Her attitude and lack of feelings for me developed into actively bitching me
Whatever made her stop loving me after 18 years of struggle shoulder to shoulder, she hasn´t made clear Mind you, she says it´s my fault.
She sneaked off to what I considered my good old friend frnend since 30 years and either seduced him or was seduced. Probably it´s been going on "skypin"
Several moths later I was living alone and he came flying over as my guest. He came up to me and after an hour, he said that it was something he had to tell me..
What I heard paralyzed me with a pfysical pain that was real and different from other pains. I had no control over my thoughts, how to react or how I was expected to react. I was utterly destroyed. There were strong feelings of being humiliated, disrespected and abused.
opened my home for him, he lived in my family for several months. I arranged a job for him at my company
Like a fool I could only say: This came very unexpected.. Very unexpected.
I still couldnt understand or recognize my x-wifes behavior.
I decided that he was truthfull about what actually had ocurred , but lies made the story inconcistent.
I was absolutely dying of yellousy, my whole body was num of the pain - I felt embarressed and ashamed for not being able to make her want to stay with me
In my head I saw her all "done" up to attract him. Swinging her hair and cuddling up near him. He made a joint and then she stoned out of her head, starved after starving me sexually for three years. Not a single time has she forgotten and made an exeption.
. But I had to work - very pfysicly hard work and dangerous. Often very long but not easy hours I gave 80% of my wages for her to pay the bills and necessary expenses. Still she treated me only like an unwelcome hallucination. Have learnt she has told people that Ihardly gave any money to her. Those people have only disgust for me and no interest in my version
He got it all! And he said he is sorry..Then he says he is moving in with my exwife and my two kids - in "our" home. The rent from his flat in London would pay his way so no work.
-Repetedly you say you are sorry, you didn´t think i´d mind.-
She told me you didn´t mind. Now he says she was lying to make him **** her. I
- If you are my friend and want to stay that way, my voice was clear, it´s not an option for you to **** my "wife".Getting dizzy when adrenalin overdosed in me.
-If you han respected me just one bit you could have taken the troubble to pick up the phone and asked me.
I´d say you probably got an extra ich from ****ing , taking over my woman!
I have known him for 30 years. Know what turns him on. The hysterical giggeling that is satisfaction from having outmanovered a victim.
He must not meve in with my family, I cant see how I could live with that.I have begged her to drop him. The fact that i know him makes me sick. I m 50. Bitter because right at the time it´s possible to enjoy my family more, I loose them and also my pride, masculinity, self-esteem." will he move in and will they stay happy?" If he moves in my prognosis is that it will end in separation. The time it will take can vary. I have no idea.