Clarity,
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London.
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United Kingdom
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Yes it is. It is sold as art in the school, Japanese art of tying.
No amount of trying to please her will change her behavior. She is a professional dominatrix. She gets paid to humiliate people. Next time she tries her act on you do a little shimmy and say, "Ooh Baby, you make it hurt so good." Then smile at the class, wave, shout "So long Suckers!" and walk out with your head held high.
Olga, you titled your post "insulting and nasty teacher," so you already had her pegged at the beginning . . . Knowing this, how can you stay? She has singled you out for abuse, and yet you become confused, forgetting what you knew before. Remove yourself from her classes. Turn your back on her and walk away.
So you Trojina suggest that I just go and pick from these classes what I need and not let her upset me. Like it were part of my life's trials.
I have to point out that we are all over 18 in the class though. No teenagers!
I fear with this title I might have biased your opinion on her?
Yes, it certainly could be personal dislike with no good reason but that does not explain why you tolerate it and keep going back for more.
This is my last personal post in this forum, from now on I will just write the hexagram numbers I get with no explanation of the situation at all.
As to your example of the car with a good engine and a bad outside, I would probably get angry and upset at someone insulting my car and not believing it is wonderful, and would probably start justifying myself and try to convince them. I guess that's the problem and the reason why I'm still stuck here. I lose my time trying to convince people instead of just going ahead.
But what about your posts? I read one about your son and one about your landlord + others where you too are always the victim!
Could it be because we don't usually consult i ching when things go great and we are the super boss but on the other hand we are more inclined to cast when things go bad or when we feel insulted?
You once wrote to me that I'm so needy as I post so much. But have you counted your posts? You throw coins much more than I do!
And by the way if you don't like my posts there's no need for replying. You did the same thing in my thread about Buddhism, treating me like a stupid child. I've had enough of you! I didn't get into your post about your abusive son telling you that if you have an abusive son it's probably because you failed as a mother, or did I?
If I share my cast on an i ching forum I don't expect people asking me why do bad things always happen to me and how is my therapy going. It's my bloody business. Just stick to the cast. Or reply to someone else.
...or if it's just me being oversensible and not ready to take criticism?
...or if it's just me being oversensible and not ready to take criticism?
But what about your posts? I read one about your son and one about your landlord + others where you too are always the victim!
Thank you cathalina
of course everything has to do with something in ourselves.
But this should apply to everyone, shouldn't it?
Do you go around the forum saying to everyone that they need to look within themselves if they fall into bad people?
Any other psychological suggestion I think is out of place. And anyway it's irritating me, so I'm gonna cancel everything I can from this
She's harsh so some people left.
I asked for feedback on the lines. Which line tells I have to look inside myself? please tell me.
Goddessliss didn't spend a single word on the cast, so yes I got defensive as I felt her was a judgement made on a personal basis and not on the hexagrams I had got.
As to your horror towards abusive teacher, I really wonder where you live. About 50% of my teachers (from kindergarten to university, from piano to theatre) were harsh. If they're good, you put up with it. It's all a matter of what your aims are, as rosada said, and what other good teachers you can find nearby as we don't all live in New York or Paris or London where you certainly have more choice!
I am canceling everything I can from this thread
no, I don't want to discuss my private life any longer with anyone
I believe you wrote to me with the best of intentions but I feel I am being attacked and judged while I just posted some hexagrams.
On the buddhist thread Trojina said it was a stupid question to ask. So honestly I've had enough of you all. have fun on this forum by yourselves, I will just keep myself to asking questions on hexagrams and the way they work
I am canceling everything I can from this thread
no, I don't want to discuss my private life any longer with anyone
I believe you wrote to me with the best of intentions but I feel I am being attacked and judged while I just posted some hexagrams.
On the buddhist thread Trojina said it was a stupid question to ask. So honestly I've had enough of you all. have fun on this forum by yourselves, I will just keep myself to asking questions on hexagrams and the way they work
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).