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catwoman
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Hi everyone,
My ex and I keep in touch, and he sent me a poem of sorts because I sent him some fiction writing of mine. His poem basically asks, how do long-term couples stay together? Is it a secret only they know? Or are they just afraid of being alone? The poem also asks, why do we screw up our relationships and why don't we make them work? After reading this, it makes me think he still has regrets and guilt over his divorce which happened about 13 years ago. He and I had an affair (a huge mistake), which I'm sure was the factor. At the end of his email he said he welcomed any comments from me. I want to give him my impressions on his writing; however, because I think it's about her, I feel awkward talking about it. Plus, I wonder if this will douse any possible get together between him and me.
So my Q for the I Ching was, "Is he still feeling guilt and regret over his ex?" I got 32 > 34. A few days later I asked the same question, because I re-read the poem to give him my feedback. Again, I got 32, but no changing lines.
I read posts about 32 on this site and gained some valuable insights, but for my Q I feel these results could mean different things, depending on who the I Ching is actually referencing (me or him). I'd like to see what you all think...
Thanks so much for your time,
Sue
:bows:
My ex and I keep in touch, and he sent me a poem of sorts because I sent him some fiction writing of mine. His poem basically asks, how do long-term couples stay together? Is it a secret only they know? Or are they just afraid of being alone? The poem also asks, why do we screw up our relationships and why don't we make them work? After reading this, it makes me think he still has regrets and guilt over his divorce which happened about 13 years ago. He and I had an affair (a huge mistake), which I'm sure was the factor. At the end of his email he said he welcomed any comments from me. I want to give him my impressions on his writing; however, because I think it's about her, I feel awkward talking about it. Plus, I wonder if this will douse any possible get together between him and me.
So my Q for the I Ching was, "Is he still feeling guilt and regret over his ex?" I got 32 > 34. A few days later I asked the same question, because I re-read the poem to give him my feedback. Again, I got 32, but no changing lines.
I read posts about 32 on this site and gained some valuable insights, but for my Q I feel these results could mean different things, depending on who the I Ching is actually referencing (me or him). I'd like to see what you all think...
Thanks so much for your time,
Sue
:bows: