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Is it possible to flirt with t'ai ji or is it creepy;?;

Qiaozhi Yeats

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Flirting is a form of banter between men and women, thus it is in a sense a pleasurable form of combat, which I know sounds strange, but in the end all ironing out of imperfections in relationships are forms of sado-masochism, including sex. Life is an approximation. Yet some people believe true love exists. As an atheist I am inclined towards the former. As a believer I am inclined towards the latter. So this is philosophy and education, pretty boring, we all know what love is, no need to put it into words.

But to return to my question, if flirting is a form of pleasurable combat, can one flirt with according to the principles of t'ai ji or is such behaviour always perceived as creepy, which in fact t'ai ji is in a way, although it's forms can be very beautiful. I divined, and received: 14, 6 => 34, great power is good if correctly used.

As a follow up question I asked, do I need to work on my form for flirting;?; A randomized choice from the oracle replied, 34, 1 => 32, persevere in what is right.

Can saints have sexual relationships;?; 26, 3, 5 => 61, faithfulness in the centre, the middle path of Buddhism.

Am I pushing myself too hard in striving for perfection;?; 63, 5, 6 => 22 adornment, beautifying oneself.

This last answer reflects back my question giving no extra information, so I am lost.

Thoughts or responses;?; Thank you.
 

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but in the end all ironing out of imperfections in relationships are forms of sado-masochism
If you believe that self cultivation and compromise are masochism,
you should stay away from tai chi,
Unless of course you are a masochist, no?

Life is an approximation.
That is a fundamental foundational error.
Life is the real deal,
Your thoughts are the approximation.
 
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