Is X angry at me?

[hasu_z]

Hello and good evening everyone, today I did 3 readings based on the same topic and was extremely confused I'm not going to lie.

1) Is X mad at me? - 45.4 -> 8

2) Did I do something to provoke the conflict? - 4.3 -> 18

3) What is the best course of action to take right now? - 53.3.5 -> 23

Well based on all the readings I can conclude that perhaps I need to take it slow and let go of the idea that just because I'm overthinking, doesn't mean I'm being ignored??? I guess? If that makes sense. The rest I had trouble interpreting so I would love to hear your insight on it.

 

[diamanda]

Hi hasu_z,

Is X mad at me? 45.4 > 8
This shows someone having a good time with a group, and then in close proximity with one other person. So X is having a good time elsewhere, and is not mad at you.

Did I do something to provoke the conflict? 4.3 > 18
You didn't bow down and comply like a servant to X.

What is the best course of action to take right now? 53.3.5 > 23
Line 53.3 shows a clear separation, a line of misfortune. Even if there is reconciliation a long time after that (53.3), the situation will again end up in splitting apart. So whatever you've had so far between you and X, it will not get better no matter how much you wait.

 

[rosada]

4.3 describes someone who when entering a new situation may lose focus on their original purpose and be attracted to what others are doing. I see 4.3 as meaning he may somehow have felt you were not giving him total attention - or perhaps the I Ching is warning you not to bond with someone who is not all that focused on you or your goals as a couple.

As for the best course of action to take, I see 53.3 as advising you not give up though it may be a while before patient waiting pays off. When (and if!) you do reconnect 53.5 sounds like things should go well.

Rather than reading 23 as an indication that ultimately you will split up, I read it strictly in the context of your question, "What is the best course of action to take right now?" and I see it as saying both that as you are Split Apart at the moment you should not do anything but really let the Split sink in (absence will make his heart grow fonder?), and also that when (and if!) you do patch things up be ready to examine and solve the issues that caused the problem in the first place so that they are not re-created, and then to not keep bringing it up. Forgive and forget. Shed this unfortunate experience like an old skin so you really can have a fresh start.