With this cast I just can't see a state of ....I can't think of the word....checkmate/stalemate lasting. Also this is 4 and there's much that either they or you don't know. They may be looking up at the window because they are curious or they just don't get or understand your position with them. The 19 makes me feel you will be reintroduced to each other.
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For years I've had neighbours/landlords that I end up in conflict with at some level. Not always but mostly. I bought into mentally, emotionally and self righteously causing myself some unnecessary stress and trauma. But now tbh I've learned to just not give a sh**.
So latest scenario - I moved into this rental 3 months ago. It's a house with a flat underneath and I rent the flat whilst close relatives (who are in their mid 50's) of the landlord have lived upstairs for 15 years. My flat has always been a holiday flat but with COVID the landlord obviously wanted a certainty he was getting an income. I get on extremely well with the landlord although it's not often I see him or talk to him after initially having a few issues after moving.
When I first moved in the tenants upstairs kept using my outside electricity point and even though I took fair and appropriate measures to stop them they just kept doing it at the same time as being friendly and up for a chat. In the end I spoke to the landlord and he said let me sort it out and he did but he had to speak to them twice about it. Since then I have no interest in passing the time of the day or saying hello to them. The male tenant mows the lawns at least once a week and for some reason always seems to have the need to look through my windows, which he's done since the day I moved in, so I've taken to shutting all the blinds when he's mowing.
I just do my own thing, mind my own business and if our paths cross I stay silent. I don't care about it, have no emotional attachment to the whole thing and see no reason why we can't just live in this situation without drama.
Anyway it's obvious they're not happy about things because they've started to started staring in my windows if they go past or come outside when I'm hanging up the washing and looking at me, which I think is funny so I'm curious to what motivates this behaviour.
What is their intention in this behaviour Hex 4.1.6>19
I can't get much from this reading except they're trying to 'punish' me!
However if it's suggesting they want to be friends with me or I should be open to amends that's not going to happen. I have no interest - I didn't like them particularly before this all came to pass so it's done me a favour.
So latest scenario - I moved into this rental 3 months ago. It's a house with a flat underneath and I rent the flat whilst close relatives (who are in their mid 50's) of the landlord have lived upstairs for 15 years. My flat has always been a holiday flat but with COVID the landlord obviously wanted a certainty he was getting an income. I get on extremely well with the landlord although it's not often I see him or talk to him after initially having a few issues after moving.
When I first moved in the tenants upstairs kept using my outside electricity point and even though I took fair and appropriate measures to stop them they just kept doing it at the same time as being friendly and up for a chat. In the end I spoke to the landlord and he said let me sort it out and he did but he had to speak to them twice about it. Since then I have no interest in passing the time of the day or saying hello to them. The male tenant mows the lawns at least once a week and for some reason always seems to have the need to look through my windows, which he's done since the day I moved in, so I've taken to shutting all the blinds when he's mowing.
I just do my own thing, mind my own business and if our paths cross I stay silent. I don't care about it, have no emotional attachment to the whole thing and see no reason why we can't just live in this situation without drama.
Anyway it's obvious they're not happy about things because they've started to started staring in my windows if they go past or come outside when I'm hanging up the washing and looking at me, which I think is funny so I'm curious to what motivates this behaviour.
What is their intention in this behaviour Hex 4.1.6>19
I can't get much from this reading except they're trying to 'punish' me!
However if it's suggesting they want to be friends with me or I should be open to amends that's not going to happen. I have no interest - I didn't like them particularly before this all came to pass so it's done me a favour.
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