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What did I learn last weeks?
18.1.3.6 > 19
Hmmm, interesting. Working on what has been spoiled. At least there is a potential that all that have been soiled they can been fixed. That is encouraging.
Last week I post a thread about a “meeting” with a very special, imo, person. Lately ,I strongly resist to any close connection with other people. There is a line that nobody is allowed to move beyond it. But I realized that I have allowed this person to pass this safety-line and I was terrified.!
I think that my reaction had to do with “what has been spoiled”
“what has been spoiled” in few words is influences, obligation, beliefs collected in my childhood as Lise say and I couldn’t agree more.
For me is that voice in my mind telling me “you should do this, you should do that don’t disappoint me” But the “me” was somebody else.
This is how I see that reading.
Line 1.
the cause of this panic-crisis is more invisible now than ever. I know what I have to fight. The problem has a name know and “the father” is behind it.( the “father is the family ,the friends, the teachers everybody/everything that has a power over a child) But accusing the ones hold that “power” there will be no progress . so forgive/forget what happened in the past and start correcting. Move on. There is a danger here. The windows were closed and the room dark. Now its time to open the windows But ‘Perhaps the light will prove another tyranny. Who knows what new things it will expose?
And that is the danger. But there is also an opportunity. The light, the fresh air, life itself.
Line 3.
The child let him come closer . At the beginning joy and then fear. What if she do the same mistakes again ? She should find a way to avoid the re-occurrence of the old attitude. Felt like been trapped in a labyrinths and knew she should find the exit but instead making a plan she start running in the corridors Just running.
The horse is terrified. She runs madly in the forest she wants to exit the forest but she also prefers the known than the unknown. And suddenly a thunder hit the horse and a BOOM gave her the push to try to go out the forest. At least she knows there is the moon out there.
Line 5.
I hear the Yi telling me: «You are the child of your parents, the sister for your brothers the grandchild the niece the student, the friend ,the lover, the employer ,the employee ,the associate ,……. Have you forgotten somebody?”
Myself ?
“Yes! yourself “the Yi replies. You have to honor the most important affair in your life the one with yourself.
And I wonder “ how can I work on that relationship?”
18.1.3.6 > 19
I think that 19 is the answer.
Bruce, I’ll use your words in “19.4.5 >58 about a relationship” thread
I hope you don’t mind to change it a little
“……consider this other person( here yourself) , also in a generous and open way, if you would like an open exchange with yourself.
And I will add “ she is trying to work on what has been spoiled. Give her a chance.
(Topal, willowfox and bruce, now I understand what you were talking about !!! better late than never The sound travel slower than the light”
I asked
What did I learn last weeks?
18.1.3.6 > 19
Hmmm, interesting. Working on what has been spoiled. At least there is a potential that all that have been soiled they can been fixed. That is encouraging.
Last week I post a thread about a “meeting” with a very special, imo, person. Lately ,I strongly resist to any close connection with other people. There is a line that nobody is allowed to move beyond it. But I realized that I have allowed this person to pass this safety-line and I was terrified.!
I think that my reaction had to do with “what has been spoiled”
“what has been spoiled” in few words is influences, obligation, beliefs collected in my childhood as Lise say and I couldn’t agree more.
For me is that voice in my mind telling me “you should do this, you should do that don’t disappoint me” But the “me” was somebody else.
This is how I see that reading.
Line 1.
the cause of this panic-crisis is more invisible now than ever. I know what I have to fight. The problem has a name know and “the father” is behind it.( the “father is the family ,the friends, the teachers everybody/everything that has a power over a child) But accusing the ones hold that “power” there will be no progress . so forgive/forget what happened in the past and start correcting. Move on. There is a danger here. The windows were closed and the room dark. Now its time to open the windows But ‘Perhaps the light will prove another tyranny. Who knows what new things it will expose?
And that is the danger. But there is also an opportunity. The light, the fresh air, life itself.
Line 3.
The child let him come closer . At the beginning joy and then fear. What if she do the same mistakes again ? She should find a way to avoid the re-occurrence of the old attitude. Felt like been trapped in a labyrinths and knew she should find the exit but instead making a plan she start running in the corridors Just running.
The horse is terrified. She runs madly in the forest she wants to exit the forest but she also prefers the known than the unknown. And suddenly a thunder hit the horse and a BOOM gave her the push to try to go out the forest. At least she knows there is the moon out there.
Line 5.
I hear the Yi telling me: «You are the child of your parents, the sister for your brothers the grandchild the niece the student, the friend ,the lover, the employer ,the employee ,the associate ,……. Have you forgotten somebody?”
Myself ?
“Yes! yourself “the Yi replies. You have to honor the most important affair in your life the one with yourself.
And I wonder “ how can I work on that relationship?”
18.1.3.6 > 19
I think that 19 is the answer.
Bruce, I’ll use your words in “19.4.5 >58 about a relationship” thread
I hope you don’t mind to change it a little
“……consider this other person( here yourself) , also in a generous and open way, if you would like an open exchange with yourself.
And I will add “ she is trying to work on what has been spoiled. Give her a chance.
(Topal, willowfox and bruce, now I understand what you were talking about !!! better late than never The sound travel slower than the light”