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I agree, Rosada. However it was line 54.4, was this a typo? Thank you for your insight. The future possibility I think is that I find it likely that we'll keep a soft spot for each other however I don't see this being acted on. Thus, no real plan but just empty potential?I see this reading as reinforcing what you’ve told us about the situation. That is, that you two got off to a weird start, that she doesn’t see how a good partnership develops and she wants to delay making a serious commitment but leaves the door open for future possibilities.. Meanwhile 2, the barren field sees nothing developing in the future.
I think that 54.2 line describes the real reason for her wanting to step back. When it comes to a partnership here she just doesn’t see it.
54.1 as mirroring what you’ve said here about the relationship starting out in a confused uncertain manner.
54.2 Uncertainty about seeing each other’s points of view.
54.3 Delaying commitment but also wanting to keep the connection.
2. Possibilities but no real plan for the future.
Good to know. Thank you for your insights.Typo. I’ll edit it.
That's right, she isn't in a position to make commitments. She said her breaking up with me is really confusing to her because she is still in love with me, but feels the motivation to make the relationship work is lacking. She's completely heart broken but she said it would not be fair to me or herself to stay when she isn't committed anymore, regardless of her feelings. This exact confusion is what made me ask the I Ching, although I am aware love isn't always enough to stay.I’m seeing these lines as saying your friend doesn’t know what she wants for herself and so she’s not in a position to make commitments to you. She doesn’t want to fake something she doesn’t feel.
54.2 A one-eyed man who is able to see. The perseverance of a solitary man furthers.
She doesn’t fully understand what she wants in life and thus she feels it’s better she remain single.
54.4 A late marriage comes in due course.
She is not overly eager to get married now and isn’t worried if she doesn’t marry till late in life. This makes me feel that her asking that the two of you be friends rather than committed partners shows self awareness. I would encourage you not to feel rejected but also not to try to woo her. Be the friend. Do things together as friends. Love grows when you plant seeds (2).
I guess this translates into the initial enthousiasm my ex felt. She said she was overly enthousiastic in the beginning and because of her lack of experience wasn't aware of the hardships and sacrifices that have to be made in a relationship. Because of my baggage and her lack of consideration or overcompensation at times I didn't need it, a rapture in balance and trust got created. She indeed felt like she was lacking, sacrificing a lot (I didn't ask her to and even warned her for this behavior) and I guess the stress started to outweigh the loving parts of the relationship. Thus knowing she can leave.The maiden in 54 thinks her marriage is a good thing and is happy with being secondary and maybe dreams of being a queen someday. As someone said here this hex is about finding joy in an unconventional way. Imagine she enters the house and after awhile realizes the real dynamics and her real position. I think the only sweet thing she will keep is her first hope, everything else in reality means inferiority, sacrifice and lack of love. In your reading she doesn't keep it to line 5 or 6 as unlike the old times, she knows she is free to leave.
There is always love between human beings, an unconditional one, and we wish to keep the bond with people no matter what. But to navigate every single life and expand it there is more to it than this pure love for humanity.
The first lines in your cast explain her first motives (a love bigger than life) and ignorance of you and what this relationship implies (sacrifice and being secondary). The last one shows her discernement and resolution. And hex 2 with its yin lines she is returning to the original field of possibilities without engaging in any creative endeavour (all the yang dynamic and creative lines are becoming yin).
Or it could mean something else.
You discovered many things in this interaction and it gives you more chances of compatibility in your next relationship.
Wish you love and peace.
Clarity,
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