Dear clarity, My ex partner broke up with me but is having an incredibly tough time, she said the love didn't fade but she stopped seeing a future with me and lost faith in herself and the relationship and saw herself turning into someone who might hurt me cause she lost her patience. She has...

I have a rather difficult relation with my older brother who is very opinionated, inflexible and harsh. At the same time he’s also quite spiritual. He prays and meditates and believes in God. We were estranged in the past but I decided to let him back in my life. Suddenly, about 1.5 years ago he...

I had a bizarre romance. It was sweet and kind and loving for the brief period at the beginning. Then suddenly the person became unhinged and odd in a way I can't even fathom. He behaved with no decorum, no humility. Was brash, arrogant, aggressive, vain, self indulgent and delusional...

Dear everybody! I rarely use the I Ching. The other day I felt like I need some advice regarding which path should I continue on. A week ago, my friends suggested I should go to a university and learn psychology because it would fit me. Indeed I like to reflect on people and myself. However I...

So a musician friend is currently on tour in Brazil (the lucky duck), and she's asked me to do something which is illegal while shes away. We are both on the dole here and her payment is due in tomorrow. She won't be here to pick it up and as such she wants me to walk into the post office and...

I know that there a tonnes of archived threads on 4.1, but I would really appreciate a specific view for this particular query if you have the time. I asked why I lacked confidence in a certain situation. Im not sure if Yi is saying i'm a fool and i had to go through this situation to learn...

Hi, :blush: I have been unemployed for a few years now, my degree is in animation and animation related jobs are few and far between here, and there's so many graduates of animation that the competition is very high when jobs do crop up. Being unemployed for so long i decided to focus on my...

The translated chapter 4* of the Yi Jing: The great image says: At the foot of the mountain a spring wells up: Ignorance A noble one nurtures virtue by reliable conduct Not knowing Ignorance, expansion Not me seeking the young and ignorant the young and ignorant seeking me The first...