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Do you think this is referring to the actual solstice as a deadline for this discussion? It is only a month and a half away.Hex 24 Wilhelm/Baynes (Image): Thunder within the earth: the image of The Turning Point. Thus the kings of antiquity closed the passes at the time of the solstice. Merchants and strangers did not go about, and the ruler did not travel through the provinces.
I tend to interpret the aforementioned solstice as a metaphor for the point in your relationship. In this point you can’t be more distant. But there is the turning point (like in the real solstice) after which you get closer and closer. I think that this can’t be interpreted out of the context of lines you got 7.1.2. i.e. condition for this turning point is open two-way communication.Do you think this is referring to the actual solstice as a deadline for this discussion? It is only a month and a half away.
I would say that the meaning of this line is that there is no solution without trying. So you won’t know how this discussion will end, if you don’t try and according to this line this attempt is (still) well aspected.11.3 Wilhelm/Baynes: No plain not followed by a slope. No going not followed by a return. He who remains persevering in danger Is without blame. Do not complain about this truth; Enjoy the good fortune you still possess.
I would say that the meaning of this line is that there is no solution without trying. So you won’t know how this discussion will end, if you don’t try and according to this line this attempt is (still) well aspected.
Finally I asked: “about X still wanting a divorce” 7.1.2 > 24 - I am not sure about this at all.
I asked: “about waiting until she brings up the current state of our divorce” the answer: 60uc
And to add perhaps;So my mindset would have been “an impression of her intentions.”
From that point of view:
Line 7.1 “going by all the rules”. - Following the formalities of the divorce. Proceeding with the divorce.
She is the one in the center,Line 7.2 “Being in the center, making it happen.” - This is an interesting take on the line. Was this based upon any particular interpretation or is that an Elk original?
The question is “who, or what, is in the center of making it happen”?
She is the one in the center,
directing things.
the Father illness is not related to her family, it is about the cause of the problem.@Topher thanks for responding!
The reason, and only reason, I thought her family is because of ongoing issues she has had with them. The references to the “Father’s illness” drew my mind to her family. It was something we talked about a lot during our drive.
Although that does not mean it could not have been referring to my own “illness” that lead to issues in our relationship. I had not considered that.
I had considered that I had issues in the relationship, I had not considered that Fathers illness could have been me
I am not solely at fault (obligatory I’m not the bad guy) but everyone played their part. I have been trying not to bring up our history and the, parts we both played, in conversations with her. I try to avoid them when talking about them to anyone so as not to feed the disease.
It is really hard not to do.
I have addressed some of the issues we had, she has mentioned I seem different. I wonder how much of that is strictly her perception.
I will keep trying to move things forward, rather than just waiting for them to move on their own.
Thank you.
What do you make of:
she was supposed to stop by to see me after a small procedure I was having. She did neither. Now I have not seen, or even really talked to, her in the past two weeks
and iching told you the opposite(the problem isnt the family unless you are 100% sure that is the cause or "the father"..)I did not try to solve the problem, I did not give my opinion on her family situation
yes 45.5 is about a king who gathers people together but. only with the help of someone (in line 2) otherwise it isn't possible, also the meaning can be removing behavior form line 4 onto a more female like similar to line 2. you can achieve the gathering. that is my own interpretation, if the person was in line 2 the site describes that you have to be empathetic to said person, and their current situation they are facing, and offer the gathering, in the nearby future they will have to choose if you are REALLY expressing your inner trust(hex61)@Topher I asked: “what should I do to accomplish the gathering in hexagram 45 line 5” and was answered with Line 8.2.6 > 59 Uniting to ispersion.
Which seems to say that without a leader the relationship will lack direction. In order for me to be a leader I should be centered in myself and sure of what I want.
8.2: The second line, magnetic, shows the movement toward union and attachment proceeding from the inward mind. With firm correctness there will be good fortune. - Legge8.6: The sixth line, magnetic, shows one seeking union and attachment without having taken the first step to such an end. There will be evil. - Legge
I have been looking at the link you provided and it is interesting, although I am finding it a bit confusing. I have been looking at 45.2 and it seems to say, if I am understanding correctly, that she is waiting for someone to provide her direction. If I am not providing that direction someone else will, and she will follow.
That seems would be related to my 8.2.6 answer, which also speaks to the need of taking a lead but only if I am sure of what I want to accomplish.
I have not heard from her even though she said she would stop over. I had confirmed that I would like to see her, but have not heard anything since. So this may be the end of things.
I would love to hear your interpretation.
Thank You!
Clarity,
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