...life can be translucent

Menu

Lost an important friend

psychonaut613

visitor
Joined
Dec 27, 2012
Messages
142
Reaction score
11
Alright, so some crazy sh*t happened.

Me and some friends were drinking. One girl got really sick and was suspicious something was put in her drink. She won't answer texts or talk to me, doesn't trust me, thinks I did something. I didn't, for the record. I love our friendship she is important to me and I will be really sad if I lose this friendship.

So, I asked the IC
Is there a way to mend our friendship?

I got 34.1.2.4 > 15 power of the great changing to 15.

line 1 - false start?

Help please I'm going nuts don't know what to do. :confused:
I've thought about having a mutual friend call and try to talk to her for me, idk if that fits the reading.
 
Last edited:
C

casstone

Guest
I'd see it as.. you don't really need to do anything about this situation in order to mend it. It will mend by itself. There will be no use in screaming out your innocence or trying to prove it. All you need to do is to stay veracious and be humble. Little is more in this case. Keep low, do not insist on texting her or trying to get to her in other ways. Probably you've already said most of what has to be said anyways. Once she has calmed down and will feel a little better she'll be able to look clearly at the situation as well.
 

psychonaut613

visitor
Joined
Dec 27, 2012
Messages
142
Reaction score
11
I am worried she may have deleted / blocked my number even if she calms down changes her mind, she will have no way to contact me. But then, I'm a worrier with years of practice. It's almost as natural as breathing to me :rofl:
 
Last edited:

psychonaut613

visitor
Joined
Dec 27, 2012
Messages
142
Reaction score
11
My gut tells me the best thing to do is my best attempt at stopping worrying and basically say to the universe, "I give up, this is in your hands" and give it time, but at the same time, be positive it can work out.
This goes along with what the reading is saying, right?
I just don't see how. This is the kind of sh*t only supposed to happen on tv or movies
 
Last edited:

psychonaut613

visitor
Joined
Dec 27, 2012
Messages
142
Reaction score
11
So I was thinking it's possible that, however I may feel about our friendship, that the possibility exists maybe she is just causing drama like some young women like to do.

I asked whether she made the story up and got 20. Kuan / Contemplation, no changing lines. ???
 

psychonaut613

visitor
Joined
Dec 27, 2012
Messages
142
Reaction score
11
Maybe I'm really just talking to myself at this point; a good meaning for contemplation.

If it helps, I think the real question on my mind when I asked about the story being made up was basically whether we can still be friends; whether she is trustworthy. If she tells stories like that, she can get me in a lot of trouble.

Optimistically I've thought about the possibility that 20, seeing and being seen, someone in a position to influence others, this may be an event that makes her rethink things and realize she actually has to be careful about what she says , or find a better way of thinking and doing things. The way I see it, either way accusing me of drugging her suggests she has a dramatic mind. She drank a lot.
 
Last edited:

psychonaut613

visitor
Joined
Dec 27, 2012
Messages
142
Reaction score
11
I hadn't asked more questions because 20. contemplation seemed to point back to the original reading of 34 or suggest I should simply think or meditate on things. It's been over 2 weeks. I have not tried to contact her, nor her me. I really just wish to know what to do, whether to give it up on things completely, or if there is a future in our friendship. None of the readings so far necessarily suggested giving up, yet my reading of 20 suggested to watch and wait. So I have, but I am impatient.

So, today I asked, "If I ask more questions will it help me understand this or know what to do?" and got 2. the Receptive, lines 4 and 6, changing to 35 (2.4.6>35). Almost, it would seem to be telling me the same again, or rather, the answer appears to be along the same lines as those before.
Thanks in advance.
 
Last edited:

anemos

visitor
Joined
Aug 5, 2010
Messages
2,316
Reaction score
79
At a first glance it seems to me that your last reading might refer to your first one. Line 4 makes me things that and as for 6 could be to mediate more on the first one. But it could be read also that a new well phrased question will help you see the problem from another perspective according to a new reading I mean. "what can I do" , as you said seems I good question.

She accuses you for something you haven't done. If you have already say simple and clear " i din't do it" , then I'm not sure you can do much. Its her call to decide whether she will believe you or not. This approach might be your 34.4 . I can understand how you feel , but I believe its her problem and she has to solve it or not.
 

psychonaut613

visitor
Joined
Dec 27, 2012
Messages
142
Reaction score
11
what can I do?
41.2.3.5.6>63 41. Sun / Decrease, lines 2,3,5,6 changing to 63. Chi Chi / After Completion.
Thanks in advance. Maybe points back to 15?

I had a dream the other night where me and her were talking and everything was normal again. Right before the night in question happened, I had a dream or two where I looked for her everywhere and couldn't find her.
 
Last edited:

psychonaut613

visitor
Joined
Dec 27, 2012
Messages
142
Reaction score
11
I talked to a friend who was there on that night yesterday. He has talked to her since and she didn't act like he was under suspicion anymore, but he didn't ask how she felt about me. But, I was thinking line 3 of 41 could indicate along with the other readings that he cannot help me in this, my communication to the universe or her must be my own? although it would be nice if he had informed her that nothing happened, I wonder why...?
 
Last edited:

psychonaut613

visitor
Joined
Dec 27, 2012
Messages
142
Reaction score
11
I decided that line 3 may represent that I must make my own communication(lise) and I have been thinking about it, so I asked, Will it be fruitful to attempt to contact her now?
I got 43.5 > 34 (full circle?) I read a few threads on 43.5 here and some say it means take action now, you have a choice, some say its warning of danger in taking action, so I asked what if I don't and got 24.5 > 3. I think I'm just confusing myself too many questions at this point.
Please and thank you to anyone with ideas about this.
 
C

casstone

Guest
Ok
My personal advice on this would be: Try not to let the situation affect you too much. Distract yourself and try not to question I Ching about it for some while. You could ask yourself instead why this friendship is of such a great value to you and why your friend came to have these strange ideas about you.
If you haven't already, you could contact this girl in some way (without expecting a response) perhaps writing her a letter and tell her your side of the story, tell her you didn't do it. Period. Once you've said what has to be said don't do anything else about it and also stop thinking about it. You're not guilty so stop feeling guilty. If she's more or less a stable person and a real friend to you, she'll eventually come forward and apologize for her behavior and you might have the basis to continue your friendship. If not.... well, just be happy. Better alone than poorly accompanied.
Best wishes!
 

psychonaut613

visitor
Joined
Dec 27, 2012
Messages
142
Reaction score
11
Just wanted to update this. It has a very happy ending. ;)
In the process of my questions, I got 41.2.3.5.6>63
Lise translation:
41.3 "Three people moving, then the rule is one person is diminished. One person moving, then the rule is one finds a friend"
41.5 "Someone's increase. Ten pairs of tortoise shells and nothing is able to contradict it."
41.6 " A soul in which diminishing and augmenting do not exist, has no ego. He can find his road simply by walking it. He will find servants without offering them a place to live because being close to a soul like this has more value than anything else. He needs no home, he is a home. " (when I read this, realized this is the person I want to be)
Wilhelm:
41.3 When there are three people together, jealousy arises. One of them will have to go. A very close bond is possible only between two people. But when one man is lonely, he is certain to find a companion who complements him
41.5 "Someone does indeed increase him. Ten pairs of tortoises cannot oppose it."
So, I knew when I read this I had to remove these two friends from my life, both the girl who accused me and the guy who claimed to be my friend but was still talking to this girl he knew for a fact to be a liar without even trying to correct or set her straight on this behavior(or maybe HE did something to her that night)
At first I felt very empty but I kept reminding myself that the IC said I would gain something better if I removed these people from my life. A week or two later, I found an owl in my house. I thought this was weird cuz I have never even known someone who ever found an owl in their house. I googled it bc I believe in shamanism among other disciplines and owls are messengers of change / death. Then, a few weeks later I met her. I have never felt like this in my entire life.
I felt a kindred, a connection to this girl like I've never felt b4. The first night, we talked about our fears and issues from previous relationships, we are both kind of basket cases and yet, kinda perfect for each other. We ended up talking until 5 am and spent the whole weekend together. And now we talk or txt on the phone everyday and see each other a lot and don't seem to get sick of each other. It has been a month and a half and we both wonder sometimes how we got a long without each other. And from wilhelm 41.3 we sure seem to "complement" each other well.
I've never been this happy with anyone, but I still have a lot of issues, so it's still a day to day battle. But she wants me to succeed and helps me out, so I think I'll be fine...
And I'm glad that girl falsely accused me and stopped being my friend bc it created this whole chain of events I don't think I would have met the new girl otherwise :bows: I probably wouldn't have been where I was when I was to meet her
 
Last edited:

Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom

Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).

Top