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Sorry but are you sure he is not married and has a family? Wish your dream comes true and I am wrong. All the best, dear.I had asked about a man in my life who I am interested but he seems to be stuck in his past and there is no interest towards me..
The answers seem to show there is no hope between us and a lot of times I have received 23 unchanging.
The thing is... yesterday I asked I ching about and I told: I want to be in relationship with him.
Iching answered with: 61, 2, 3 to 37
Do you have any idea what could mean? It seems an auspicious answer but I can't believe it can apply between us...
No no he isn't married, we are working together. But his ex is everywhere even if he is single..Sorry but are you sure he is not married and has a family? Wish your dream comes true and I am wrong. All the best, dear.
Actually, is strange but whenever we talk he always open himself and talk to me about how he slept, what time he woke up, where has he been etc...I mean we are strangers and he opens himself to me like we know each other for years..I want to be in relationship with him. 61.2.3 > 37
61.2 a parental type of relationship.
61.3 a relationship between two enemies.
37 a family formed, based on the above two principles.
So since he isn't in love with you, you might have some luck with him if you mother him, and if you participate in his game of one-upping each other all the time. You'll need to accept that love isn't a part of this equation.
Too much too soon. Not a good sign, be wary.like we know each other for years
Good point. It could be a sign of self-centered behavior.I know the feeling you're describing, it's as if you're mesmerised by him, which is not a good sign. It sounds like he loves talking about himself.
She could ask, "poor you, who is doing the cleaning and laundry since you split up with your ex? do you need help?", I bet his 'love' would instantly increase.Or maybe ask him specific questions rather than just letting him ramble?
61.2The thing is... yesterday I asked I ching about and I told: I want to be in relationship with him.
Iching answered with: 61, 2, 3 to 37
I had asked about a man in my life who I am interested but he seems to be stuck in his past and there is no interest towards me..
This is the forum that kills all romance stone dead
I'm not following where all this stuff about him needing you to be a mum to him comes from.
Hexagram 61, Inner Truth, sincerity, deep feelings, subjectivity.
The question was
61.2
'Calling crane in the shadows,
Its young one responds in harmony.
I have a beloved wine cup,
I will share myself, simply pouring it out.'
61.2 is to do with hidden feelings, often quite a spiritual bond that isn't expressed outwardly. It's beautiful though not always actually developing into a 'real' everyday relationship.
61.3
'Gaining an equal.
Maybe beating the drum, maybe ceasing.
Maybe weeping, maybe singing.'
This can be quite volatile, people impacting on one another's moods. One moment you feel on top of the world about this, the next you feel so low. You're bouncing off one another's energies, responding quite strongly to each other. It's all quite emotional, this is a very emotional cast.
Your question was 'I want to be in a relationship with him'. You already are in a relationship with him in a sense.
All these deep feelings on your part, I think he can feel them.
But 37 asks 'where does this fit in to my life, the structure of my life ?' What roles can you have for one another ? With line 2 there's love but often it can find no clear role to act that out but still the crane calls from the shadows, there's sharing on some subtle level.
Now let's look at the reality, what he says, we can't make a relationship out of Yi answers we need his consent
He's showing no interest and seems stuck in the past. What can one do with a man who shows no interest ? Are you sure he shows no interest ? Do you talk a lot ? I ask because there seems a lot of back and forth between you in the reading.
I don't want to encourage false hope, you must always heed what he is communicating to you but I think with 61.2 there there is some subtle hidden feelings of a fairly delicate nature. I don't think he's the kind of man who just wants sex, seems his attitude to you is more sensitive.
I cook as well...She could ask, "poor you, who is doing the cleaning and laundry since you split up with your ex? do you need help?", I bet his 'love' would instantly increase.
It could be true. I concluded he is single because this is his relationship status in social networks.. Moreover, He is interested in 'women' on facebook...Mayorka, how do you know she is his ex (and not still current)?
No problem at all. It seems a very complicated relationship..No I don't think so, sorry. You asked if he has a relationship and the answer has an active female line, it's quite clear.
It could be an interpretation.37.2 is imperative and I think it talks to you: stay in your center & nourish yourself. 9- small taming- confirms that.
Your post Trojina gives me hope.. but it is difficult to believe that there are might be hidden feelings for me... Actually, perhaps at the beginning I felt that he likes me..for example, even if we had both work to do he was with me 1 hour and we were talking...giving a lot of attention...Moreover, he usually agrees with me and supports me... but.. the ex is everywhere in social media, even if his status is single, they have photos together (they were together for 5 years) I am not going to do anything towards him if the past is still around and he doesn't seem to make any step... So I am confused. Moreover, I have received many times hex 23 uc about him... So I believe action is not the right move.
Looking above the answer I received 'If there is anything I can do to make a relationship with him':
9, 2, 4, 5 to 30
I am wondering what it means and if the answer is about his ex... I don't know what to think....
Anyway I asked I ching:
Has he got a relationship?
37.2 >9
Perhaps he is still in relationship with her but I believe it will end soon..
I absolutely agree with you Trojina and marybluesky. Anyway, I don't want to make any move if his past is still present..It's up to him to come to you there's nothing much you can do. If he doesn't come to you then well it's his loss.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
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