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1. Dear Yi, please show me an image of my situation with x.
32.1 > 34
The image of your situation is that you are free to do whatever you like(actually not sure what you mean?) What I was asking for was a picture of the "situation", i.e. the (lack of) relationship between myself and this person as it stands now. What do you think the combination could suggest in this regard?
2. What are x's feelings for me now?
11.3,4 > 54
I would presume that he realizes now that he made a mistake by stupidly(for him), going off on a tangent, but understanding his own actions are different. I am not sure I am clear on this. Are you saying he made a mistake by starting the relationship at all or by changing attitude towards it, thus leading to me ending it? Luckily for you, you saw how he acted before any serious commitment was made. His mind and heart seem to be on different pages. This could be the conflict he has, as you mentioned in the other thread, and again below. Do you reckon it was his heart or his mind to be after our relationship?
3. Did x ever have feelings for me?
6.2,4,5,6 > 2
It seems to suggest that X had a very serious conflict going on in his head, and yes he liked you in some strange way, but he couldn't agree with himself as how to proceed.
4. Is there anything else I need to know about this situation with x?
59.0
It suggests that X has become very entrenched in his self made rut, and the anger has turn him to become more distance and stony. So I was completely off track in thinking hex 11 in response to his current feelings for me could indicate his anger has cooled down...
You wanted forever-- instantly.1. Dear Yi, please show me an image of my situation with x.
32.1 > 34
2. What are x's feelings for me now?
11.3,4 > 54
3. Did x ever have feelings for me?
6.2,4,5,6 > 2
To me this speaks of an inherent conflict, as in basic differences between our personalities, intentions and expectations of our relationship, inevitably resulting in mutual mistrust.
4. Is there anything else I need to know about this situation with x?
59.0
Dissolving... The Yi couldn't have been more loud and clear.
(Just for the sake of sharing, astrology confirms his difficult nature: Mars on the Ascendant in Cancer square to Venus and Uranus, which are in opposition; Sun opposed to Neptune; Moon opposed to Jupiter... The aspects between his birth chart and mine also confirm the conflicts between us).
So wrote Pablo Neruda in Poem 20. It applies perfectly to my case, as I'm apparently still struggling to get over the very short relationship I shared a few readings about a couple of weeks ago.
The interpretation of those readings was discussed on here and left some aspects open, however I was reluctant to ask the Yi again as the overall message appeared quite clear, at least about the current status of the relationship (I'm no longer in touch with this person). I only gave in to the temptation to consult the Yi on this subject again once, to receive a response consistent with the previous ones and hence not requiring any additional insight.
Needless to say the thought keeps coming back. In addition, I have been invited by a friend to consider a different view of this situation. As a result, I have recurred again to my wise guide with the following questions. When I started I was not intending to ask a few, I just followed my impulse after the first - I sincerely knew I could rely on the Yi's patience and gentleness with slow learners like me. I don't know if the questions were appropriate - they came out spontaneously, and I think their value lies really in the meaningful answers received.
I am adding my brief gut interpretation of the responses very vaguely based on Wilhelm's translation and some related threads on here. They will most likely be superficial and possibly mistaken... anyone's help in having them right will be as usual appreciated.
1. Dear Yi, please show me an image of my situation with x.
32.1 > 34
I guess I am being kindly "told off" for being stubborn in expecting duration from something which only had a hasty beginning and was soon over...
2. What are x's feelings for me now?
11.3,4 > 54
Looks like he is no longer resentful (Peace), maybe there is even some kind of affection, but 54 does not appear promising.
3. Did x ever have feelings for me?
6.2,4,5,6 > 2
Never received so many changing lines! To me this speaks of an inherent conflict, as in basic differences between our personalities, intentions and expectations of our relationship, inevitably resulting in mutual mistrust. Maybe hex 2 refers to some feelings on his side, although I tend to interpret this more as his desire for someone submissively accepting his ways.
4. Is there anything else I need to know about this situation with x?
59.0
Dissolving... The Yi couldn't have been more loud and clear. What a great hex for the final response!
As a side note, hexagrams 6 and 59 are recurring from the previous readings... as if they summed up the situation.
Thanks in advance for your precious insights :bows:
Cris
I had a dream in which I saw him as a cheat
Clarity,
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