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lola

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Dear people,

For about two years I looked into the eyes of a man who was walking down my street.
I started seeing this man nearly every morning, Ive never talked to him, I couldn´t and can´t now stop thinking of him, I´ve never felt this before.
I´ve been married for 20 years and have three children, I think I was never really in love with my husband. This is somehow a very brief description of my feelings toward him and about my situation with my husband, from which I separated last year, this separation lasted 6 months and I let him come back again. He says I´m the love of his life. I think I let him back because of me not wanting to “destroy” our family and because he was suffering so much.

I´ve been casting Hexagrams consistently for about 3 years now.
Althought I´ve been asking about him much longer I will only post the casts chronologically starting December 2011- when I ask about “he” or “you” that´s always him – to my husband I refer always as “my husband”.

4. April 2012 – 21:49
What if I reconciliate with my husband?
45.4--> 8

23. June 2012 - 07:39
Will I have a relationship with this man?
59 no changing lines

15. August 2012 – 12:22
What does he feel for me?
6 no changing lines

15. August 2012 – 12:34
What if I take the initiative?
17.5 --> 51

20. August 2012 - 14:11
Why am I with my husband?
33.1 --> 13

25. August 2012 – 21:50
Please tell me what feelings does he have for me right now?
16.1 --> 51

30. August 2012 – 17:40
Do I search after him and take him?
51 no changing lines


Thank you all,
 
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Try a single question and a single cast.
Then be patient while you try to understand the response.
 

long yi

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Please provide the time of the reading: year/month/day/hour (approx minutes)
and
rank which question is most important to seek an answer...1, 2, 3, 4 etc.

You will not get any response from most readers in this community if you list too many questions. No one will have the time to analyze most questions and the hexagram if there are so many.

You have listed 15 questions. If this is a check out counter with charges for reading, it will take a Iching specialist 30 min time to analyze each reading. Common sense is required if you need help. The matter concerns the proposed breakage of a family

What does he feel for me?
6 no changing lines

Personality conflict, communication complications. Hold your distance for now.
A good man will never get interested in another man's spouse with children and a husband.
The liability, the moral and ethnical issues are far too complicated.

Hexagram 6 is equivalent to 3 of swords in Tarot. I do not think you need any explanation.
This is a conflict and broken heart situation.

What if I reconciliate with my husband?
45.4--> 8
Sometimes, we may not like who we associate with, either temporary or long term. Circumstances force people together in the same boat to get something done. After awhile, it may not be that bad.

Comments: Hold your steps.
 
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Lola
I agree with everyone else, there are too many questions. Also, your state of mind is not conducive to clearness. Too many questions indicate a desperation of sorts, which you need to clear out before you can see this situation clearly. Forget the first question, it is obvious your state of mind clouds your judgment and you close off out of fear, which in this case is actually a good thing.

I want to make something clear now. As important as chemistry is in a relationship, it wears off. We marry someone we think of as superman or superwoman, and after being with them a few years, we come to realize they are just a person like anyone else, with strengths and weaknesses. As happy as you might be at first if you attained you desires, after a while the situation would be exactly like before.

Now, did you not at any time, even the very first, feel any chemistry for your present husband? If you realize that the mundaneness of life has set you apart, then you realize that that will happen in any situation. It is nice to meet prince charming, but nobody is going to be prince charming all their lives. Please understand this. The one reading that is most significant is the one about getting back together with your husband. If you get rid of the idealistc prince charming romantic feeling, accept him as a person, you may be able to rekindle at least a portion of the original spark, or at least have a nice family life, and feel good about yourself.

Believe me, I have been there, and I know how devastating third party romances can be. They destroy families. We all, male and female, must come to understand principle, and not just let our feelings run amuck with us. This is the lesson in these kinds of experiences. Prince charming may exist, but it does not last, can not last, and never will last. That does not mean we cannot have a good relationship with the person we once thought was prince charming.

Good luck

Gene
 

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thank you for your responses, I shortened my post, you are right, long yi, there was too much personal information in it. I put the time of each reading as well. You gave me something to think.
 

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Hi, what if you asked what was the best for you to do in this given situation and previously maybe to give you a picture of your current situation? May help to read from the different source, but you should not cast in agitated state of mind but try to get away from it for a few days maybe.
best of luck, d.
 

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It sounds like a karmic situation. Lola, you are a good and kind woman and I think you will do the right thing. Your husband feels you are the love of his life. The feelings you have for this other man are very understandable but they are nothing a mature person would act upon. In other words, it is a situation that calls for self-control.
 

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Hexagram 45.4 changes to hexagram 8
You and your spouse (Your six line layout of both hexagrams)

起卦时间:2012年09月01日02时39分
起卦农历:壬辰年七月十六日丑时
神煞:天乙—子申 福星—丑亥 日禄—卯 羊刃—寅 驿马—亥 桃花—午 华盖—丑
干支:壬辰年 戊申月 乙丑日 丁丑时
旬空:午未  寅卯  戌亥  申酉

六神  伏神    兑宫:泽地萃          坤宫:水地比(归魂)
         【本 卦】           【变 卦】
玄武       ▅▅ ▅▅ 父母丁未土     ▅▅ ▅▅ 子孙戊子水 应
白虎       ▅▅▅▅▅ 兄弟丁酉金 应   ▅▅▅▅▅ 父母戊戌土  
滕蛇       ▅▅▅▅▅ 子孙丁亥水  ○→ ▅▅ ▅▅ 兄弟戊申金  
勾陈       ▅▅ ▅▅ 妻财乙卯木     ▅▅ ▅▅ 妻财乙卯木 世
朱雀       ▅▅ ▅▅ 官鬼乙巳火 世   ▅▅ ▅▅ 官鬼乙巳火  
青龙       ▅▅ ▅▅ 父母乙未土     ▅▅ ▅▅ 父母乙未土 

The issue surrounds your marriage, perhaps even your house.
(line 1/6 = marriage document/house/car etc. this line sits empty under the year of the dragon)
You recognize that you have a husband
(line 3 = you, husband is on your mind, yin line).

Your husband has someone in his fancy mind (September)
(line 5: someone else in his mind, a love competitor, no affairs)
You two have disagreements.
(line 2 & 5; tiger and bird).

There is a female in line 3 that sits empty under the house of marriage.
This female love competitor cannot enter into your life. You do not have to worry.

This line 3 female is on conflict with your spouse (line 3/5 conflict). Therefore, there is nothing going on between your husband and her. However, she could be the source of problem why your husband turns cold and has disagreement with you. Line 5 sits empty under your body and soul. This means your husband is not into you (bedroom physical or emotional intimacy).

Line 4 is either your children or a younger female or your source of wealth.
1. If it is wealth, bad investment and loss. This line of water sits under the house of spouse. This line gains one step in line 6 of hexagram 8. This situation will improve by December if you recover and sell.

2. If this line refers to children, a child may leave home in 2013 (may be go to school).

3. If this line refers to a love competitor, she is leaving the scene. This is a change line. You husband is a married man and the female cannot get anywhere with him.

Line 5 of hexagram 8 is your marriage line. This sits empty under the house of spouse at present. Things improve by November. However, you have no confidence in this marriage.

Line 2 of hexagram 8: the husband line does not change. He is still the husband.
The bigger picture, you have problem with your house/land/investment. There are losses.

Hexagram 8: one yang line in line 5 and five yin line. Your husband does not go looking for trouble, but many females know him. He still fuels the fund for running the family.
Line 1, 2 and 3 remains unchanged in this hexagram. Your family situation does not change. The woman has no confidence in her relationship, but her husband does not know.

Comments:
If you read the text of both hexagram, it will read successful and good loving relationship. The text ignores the timing and individual line characters of event.
In life, marriage has up and downs. Both of you cannot exit after some disagreement. Please communicate… Fantasy (you & spouse with someone else better) may be fine.

Please watch the movie: HOPE SPRINGS, from left: Meryl Streep, Tommy Lee Jones, 2012.
Concerning a third party female, watch the movie: The other woman: NATALIE PORTMAN. You will know how other females see a married man if your husband is successful.

You both have reached the age in questioning yourself about a lot of things. This is normal.

If you closes you eye and think, for each child, you suffered 10 months to bear the baby. If you further think of the moment that your first child was born and the happiness in bringing up the family over the past 20 or more years, you will rethink why either party should give up their family for another person.

In addition, if a female gives up a husband to another female, she may find a worst life because she gives up her rights to enjoy the fruit of the family wealth and happiness for the future. Hexagram 8 means holding on together even the parties involved are not perfect.

Hexagram 45 means going to the market to shop and join the crowd. You two still have to return home and serve dinner on the table and pay your bills.

From your post, you are a honest person who speaks your mind. You will be smart enough to sort out things.
 

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