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" What will become of Mike's and my marriage plans" and I received 17.2.6 > 10 ... please please help
The man of 'age and experience' must be your husband, while 'the little boy' is your boyfriend? Well, you know, people judge us by the company we keep. The problem is that we cannot be associated with both types of men at the same time, I guess.
Hexagram 10 has to do with the way we live our lives, and it also has to do with rituals, and so it is fitting that you received hex 10 for a question about wedding plans, that is, the ceremony.
Hex 10 also has to do with how to deal with difficult people.
I usually interpret top line moving in hex 17 as meaning that I'll need to take the initiative by myself if anything is to go forward properly.
Maybe you are looking for Mr. Perfect -- and there is no such person.
I think that all the I Ching was saying was that if you want to get married again, then you'd have to be the one to take charge of that. That would be totally up to you, whether or not you're up to going through the divorce proceedings and whether or not you feel you can be happy with Mike as your new husband.
You might want to get the divorce anyway, without getting married to anybody right now, just to clear up the legal situation.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).