Marriage saga continues!

[cornucopia]

I think I might have an idea why marriage is not in the cards for me. It could be the financial part on my side. I'll have to give up something if I marry. But I'm not sure if this is the obstacle.

I asked why don't men see me as a woman they would want to marry?
I'm just saying I have not heard of a marriage proposal as of yet I have friends who get married 4 and 5 times! What am I doing wrong??? And I have no problem attracting men. It's the proposal I'm after from the right man, of course.

Hexagram 57 lines 2,3,4 changing into hexagram 12

I do not like this. Does it mean my destiny for marriage is blocked? Astrologically I've been told I'm never getting married. Born under a negative astrological planetary alignment for house of marriage...

Any suggestions are welcomed. Should I phrase this differently maybe? I just want to get to the point and get it over with.

 

[long yi]

Hexagram 57 is again one of the pure hexagram (six strike). It is not good for relationships.
Wind pass thu, and nothing stay and stick.
Too many change lines mean too many variables.
Line 3/4 are door position. People come and go.

The chance of success is very low with hexagram 12. The two person are not compatible. The other party has other options to choose from.

For self-reflection, in order to get married, the other party has to be attracted to you for whatever reasons that he may have in mind.

Life is a balance of desirability and affordability, if the other party does not find you desirable to fit into his requirements, and he cannot afford to be with you (probably financially). Then, he has no interest in moving forward.

In order to get married, both parties have to be have a common goal. Only when that happens, there is a chance of success. Marriage of convenience normally do not work well.

You have another post 41.1.2.6 to hexagram 2. In this case, the man has to marry into your family. Thus, he gets more out of your family than you can get anything out of him. He is relying on you on finance. Hexagram 2 is six strike hexagram, not the totally bad, but you will be the yielding party.

Marriage comes with materialistic responsibilities. If you are the financial provider and supplier, the problem may not be there. If you are looking in the reverse manner such as financial security and family stability from the man, both Iching readings suggest that it will be extremely difficult.

Hexagram with too many change lines suggest that the situation is unstable and you are not focused when you cast the reading. Unstable situation rarely brings happy endings for relationship readings.

Sorry for not providing any good news. The above is my analysis of these hexagrams.

 

[cornucopia]

Thank you Long Yi I'm definitely looking for financial security. All women look for that from a man. I have high standards.
I'll wait for as long as I have to

Everything else is true about the open door - nothing sticks. I have admirers they come and go because these men are not up to my standards.