Mother n daughter relationship

[mary f]

It seems to me Mary's mom is adapting to the situation, even though at times she feels she wants to rebel. That is because of the hex 17 as the second hexagram.
About the love Mary's mom feels for her, it is a centered and straight path, the correct path (capturing the yellow arrow). I think the 51 means both getting into action and getting bogged down in feelings. Sometimes when Mary's mother looks down and depressed, she may be getting bogged down in her feelings, but the primary hex is 40, which represents forgiveness and line two moving means she will always re-balance herself and regain the middle way.

That's exactly how I see her now, after deeper analyzis and the help of all of you.

The nuclear hexagram is 38, The Estranged, Opposites. Well, it is obvious that they get on each other's nerves, since they disagree in their value systems. They are two very different people. Yet, is it not true that very different people often find themselves together in families? Isn't this the usual situation? So what are we to do?

I fully agree with you.

Using Karcher's inner and outer operators, the Inner Operator is hex 9 and the outer operator is hex 15. That means in the inner environment, exercise restraint and try to refine the outer aspects of the situation, since there is not much that can be done about it in terms of acting on it directly. In terms of action on the outer field, it means to be more moderate and hex 15-ish. What does that mean?

I had never tried Karcher's inner and outer operators. The additional ideas are really helpful and make a lot of sense.

Your interpretation of Hexs. 15 and 60 are simple and rich.

Thank you very much Barbra.