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My Life path relationship 17.6 to 25, 8.2.3 to 48, 7uc, 32.1 to 34

Pallas

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I have asked the yi about my life path.

I am married but have been in an abusive relationship with X. You can see my previous thread regarding this. There have been some improvements in the last few months. These were made by X with my strong encouragement. Additionally, this will require at least a couple years more of intensive work to hopefully get a workable and equitable relationship.

This has left me with the dilema regarding my life path - to remain married or go. This relationship has taken a lot from me and I have had to put a lot of my goals on hold and neglect myself to care for kids due to the situation.

So here goes:

What is X role on my life path? 17.6 to 25
I read this as following to innocence. Innocence and the sixth line of 17 mean that the cycle is over. It seems to say that I have learned my lessons from the relationship and I am starting a new cycle and it is time for new endeavors. This fits with the many life changes I have made in the last year and what I have been feeling, that something new is coming and I feel a need to finish up any remaining hanging threads both with work and personally.
I am not sure if I can say this is the end of a life path cycle?

What should I do with regard to X? 32.1 to 34
Duration to great vigor
Deep into lasting, constancy pitfall. no direction bears fruit.
This just seems bad especially due to length of relationship. Maybe, keep going, but I don't see any change from above, so things stay as they are. Not sure how 34 fits her except the great efforts already put into the relationship.

Is staying with X along my life path or fate?
Hexagram 7 unchanging

I know I should not have asked a yes/ no question here. I am seeking to know if I am "supposed" to stay.
I read this as 7 an overview of the relationship in general, not a direct answer. This I read as my decision to stay or go. Staying this is going to be a hard job because I will be leading things (a continuation of the last few years). The efforts may pay off or not; this is not an easy flow. Is there something else I am missing.

What do I have to do to make the marriage work for me? 8.2.3 to 48
I have seen other posts and overall this seems bad. I am seeking connection (48) but I am at a disadvantage. I am seeking union with the wrong person (Line 3), thus for me it is not worth it to make marriage work due to the effort involved.

I have been nervous to fully leave this person,
but these readings seem to indicate that things are not going to change or get better in the foreseeable future.

If you have thoughts that I am misreading things, please comment. I hope this helps others in their reading as well.
 

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Relationship best

So I asked what the best possible outcome of relationship. 55.1.3 to 16

55.1 is about meeting your lord for a span of time.
55.3 says you break your arm but are not to blame.

Does this mean the relationship has a shelf life but I am not to blame?

Thanks for thoughts?
 

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