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My gut feeling due to past experience is just throw caution to the winds, call him, and tell him you’d like to get back together (if this is true).Hello Kittytart!
What can I expect if I contact (ex) tomorrow? And received hexagrams 20.5 changing to 23
I'd say you'll contemplate what has passed and find out you're not the one to blame, although the relationship will be over.
I then asked "What can I expect if I don't contact (ex) tomorrow? And received hexagrams 59.3.5 changing to 18
You disregard your desire to contact him and this helps you to deal with your internal tension and work on what needs to be repaired.
Good Luck!
Ok, glad you clarified that, sorry I went off on a tangent.I appreciate everyone's responses! I guess I should clarify that my desire to reach out to him is mostly to give him and me both peace of mind, although I'm concerned after the healing I've done that it could possibly hurt me and cause me to go backwards in my healing. As much as I still have feelings for him and care for him, he has a lot of work to do in regards to healing his childhood wounds. I'm wanting my intentions to be selfless and I'm afraid they might become selfish.
I asked the I ching today, "What could I expect if (ex) was back in my life and got hexagram 62.2.4 changing to 46."
I also asked "How will (ex) react if I contact him?" and got hexagram 13.4 changing to 37.
Ok, glad you clarified that, sorry I went off on a tangent.
62.2.4
13.4
*The reason I often post from the Eclectic Energies Yi Jin is that I’ve found it to be clear, helpful, and straightforward.
Both castings seem to suggest good fortune but caution to use restraint and boundaries and not to get too immersed. 13.4 you asked about his response so he’ll likely be guarded.
62. Too Little
Line 2:
Passing one's grandfather,
but meeting one's deceased mother.
Not reaching one's ruler,
but meeting one's official.
Without fault.
While unsuccessfully having tried solving a problem in a radical way, one gets to do it in a simpler way. This is not a mistake.
(The grandfather and the deceased mother refer to ancient Chinese ancestor worship. The deceased mother is not particularly high in the hierarchy of ancestors, but apparently sufficient here.)
Line 4:
Without fault.
Not passing, but meeting him.
Going forward is dangerous, one must be on guard.
No use to endlessly persist.
Facing a dangerous situation, by choice, instead of avoiding it. It is not a mistake to do so, one must however be on guard. It is not a good idea to go on at any cost.
Hexagram is changing to:
46. Advancing
Advancing.
A foundation for progress.
It is useful to see a senior person.
Do not worry,
going South brings good fortune.
Advancing. This situation helps progress. It is useful to get the help of someone who is knowledgeable and experienced. There is no need to worry, things will go well.
13.4>37
13. People Together
Line 4:
Taking advantage of one's city wall,
they will not be able to attack.
Good fortune.
Protecting oneself against the other with a barrier, so that the other cannot reach one. This goes well.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
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+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
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