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I simplified my questions and will refrain from adding any attempt to clarify the situation I'm asking about. However, this is a personal situation of which is very dear and important to me. So, I hope you will help me to hear the IC's message.

What does S want from me?
33.2 -->44
Withdrawal! That's bold and clear... And what I've been doing for the most part in response to his very sudden and inexplicable withdrawal of communicating with me. However, line 2 says to hold on and persevere....??? Withdraw...and hold on???

What is the dao of creating more of a conventional relationship between S and me?
Hexagram 28.2 -->31

Too much... Something more between us would be "overload"? And yet, again, line 2 contradicts the bold and simple statement of the primary hex by also saying unusual partnerships are favored. He's younger than I though (not the other way around as the line discusses), so maybe this is telling me S would be better to have a relationship with someone younger than he, as opposed to me who's older?

Interesting to me that both hex replies speak very bold and simple statements which I understand clearly, but each adds a line which seems to directly contradict the clear statement of the primary hex's message.

Although this is a personal situation, it is so much one that is deeply meaningful and important to me to understand and honor it in the best way I possibly can. I have a very sincere and deep appreciation for this man as well as the friendship we've created. I'm very anxious to understand so I can be sure give it the honor and respect it's worthy of...whatever that entails.:)

I'd really appreciate help and insight here, as my attempts to better understand this situation have all led to more confusion...and again, it's a relationship of great value to me....
Thank you so much!

Since my last reading was such a mess, I again asked, what is my best course of action with S?
Hexagram 58 UC...
Relax and be joyful? Stop worrying if I've inadvertently hurt him ? Just be happy?
 
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What does he want from you?
33.2 He wants some time out. Perhaps he's felt you've somehow tied yourself to him and even though there is friendship there it may have been too close for his comfort.
How to get it back on track?
28.2 Leave him alone and let him be the one to re-invigorate the union if there is to be one.
 

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Okay. Thank you so much Rosada! I've left him alone. My big reason for concern is that if I'd hurt him in any way, I didn't want to let that misunderstanding sit still without action or explanation on my part. But, he's not said outright that I upset him, just withdrew from me, so I'll assume I've not and just continue leaving him alone.
Thank you so very much!:bows:
 

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