New Day, New Guy?

[themis]

As to how Rodney will react to your message, it'll be positive even if you don't hear from him.
The lines in 2 give a picture of the stages he'll go through. After treading, 'bundled in the bag'
depicts a situation where not much action is taking place/no further events will evolve; last but
not least ... line 5 being the most auspicious ... indicates your efforts will be much appreciated.
The potential hex, which could describe the background, suggests some form of contact/heeding
advice/following a person-example. I hardly take potential hexs into consideration though.
Best to wait and see how things unfold ... the ball's in his court now. Other opportunities will
surely present themselves re. dating. Tread carefully.

 

[Trojina]

Oh, Samoyedom, sorry to hear about that .

"What will Rodney think about the message I left?" and got a 2.1.4.5>17

I'm not sure. I'm using more intuition than experience here, but I think Rodney is going to see the message, but he will not follow. He prefers to deal with things by himself. He has got a yellow underwear(? I'm using other language translation). I think it means he has got his own power to deal with things. And that he does not know you enough to accept your help.

But I might be in the total wrong track.

xxx

Iesha

my apologies its just you sounded here remarkably like Cutiecat who is a multi id user here

 

[arabella]

Yes, could be Cutie's twin sister?

 

[samoyedgrrl]

Thanks, Willowfox and Themis for your replies. At the time of this original post, I felt so overwhelmed with the "oh geesh, here we go again" feeling in regards to my dating life. I really appreciate your words of encouragement when I was so down. It really did bring a smile to my face, especially Willowfox's "don't date a guy in yellow frilly underwear" comment. I guess I'll need to raid underwear drawers of my new love interests from now on in the early stages of a relationship (just to make sure they don't have any).

Interesting things have transpired since the crisis began. Rodney has communicated a little, but primarily is caught up in his own dramas (and leaving me out of them, thank you for that), I went out on a date with a new guy this past weekend (nice, but not sure of my feelings there) and wouldn't you know it, Terry returned. The last one makes my eyes roll, as it was obvious what he was seeking from me, and it wasn't a long-term, committed, loving relationship. I really thought he was a better man than that, but thank goodness I didn't get more involved than I did with him.

So, I'm going to continue to see the new guy and when/if Rodney returns, I'm still open to a relationship with him as well. It could be an interesting time, but I will do my best to keep my chin up and positive that I will find the guy who is worthy of me.

 

[ginnie]

"Will Rodney return to me romantically?" and got a 14.2>30.

You are being called upon to help him. If he's out of a job, he might be broke. If you have some money, Samoyedmom, perhaps you might lend him some. If he was in a car accident, maybe he's been injured. You might be able to help him with that, too, somehow. Or else, there's knowledge you possess that can help him. Sounds like he's having a run of really bad luck. Put the passion to one side, because this guy has need of a good, compassionate, and generous friend right now.

 

[samoyedgrrl]

Thanks for the interpretation, Ginnie. I did attempt to reach out a few times to him after the immediate career crisis set in. He was polite about things, but was pretty clear he needed to figure himself out. Ideas like going back to school and completely changing careers were bounced around - typical thought processes of someone who is still in shock over a job loss. So, I let him be in regards to helping in the job hunt.

I did casually suggest at one point meeting up for lunch, but that was met with a silent response. So, I have left him alone. Tonight, I did a casting to ask "What action can I expect next from Rodney?" and got 60.5 > 19.

I think Yi is telling me that I have done all that I can. It is now up to him to make the next move and the way I interpret it, he will. It will take time, however. When the time is right, then he will approach me again. I believe there are two additional messages here as well: to be graceful, kind and not angry in any way for his behavior or lack thereof (as it was a very emotionally trying time for him) when he does approach and that the time will come to clear the air and set boundaries for relating to one another in the future.