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[blessed2bretro]

Hi.Sad events with a accicdent with my son who is 25 yr had a fall from a 25ft window atcz party left him in coma with brain damage and multiple injuries and i am complaining to the cheif execative as they left my son without any treatments in the community but not having a O.T or physio or CBT therapist as he was one of the lucky ones who fought to be one of the 15% who survive.i am going to fight for his treatment and lack of care and finally be able to go to ombudsmen for help to give back my sons treatment he so desperantly needs.So asked 'what position is best now the energy has changed ? now the compliant results are in Result hexagram 15

 

[Trojina]

I am very sorry to hear of this it must be awful beyond words.


I'm afraid I don't really understand what you mean by this

So asked 'what position is best now the energy has changed ? now the compliant results are in Result hexagram 15

I don't know what 'compliant results' means ? maybe you meant 'complaint results' but I don't really know what those results are or what you mean by 'now the energy has changed' ? What energy do you mean ?


Anyway I think 15uc would recommend a balanced pragmatic approach. 15uc requires one to have feet on the ground realism whereby one is fully aware of what is possible or not and acts according to that. I think it recommends neither over loading yourself with expectations you can't meet nor falling into despair but simply dealing with the situations as they arise.


Often 15uc will show up as a reminder that everything doesn't all depend on you which is why it is sometimes called 'Modesty'. You are called to do your bit and no more. Recognise what is yours to do and what isn't and also don't be afraid of seeking support.


If you have been operating at full capacity now might be the time to just pull back a little and recognise there are things you can't do much about and there are things you can. Be clear about what you can and can't attempt. In this way you will save energy through simple pragmatism.


The pair of 15 is 16 where the sky is the limit in terms of envisioning what might be. So maybe your head has been full of what to do, what's possible...but now is the time just to settle a little and see where you might be over extending your energies or where you might not be putting enough in. Self care for example might be something to start to consider.


All this is easier said than done when it is your own son I know. But this is quite a calm balanced answer so if you recognise where you have been sort of over extending then you can aim to balance that out. As I said also be very aware this isn't all down to you.