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How should I behave or should I even do anything? Should I do nothing and let things unfold? Should she be the one to initiate it?
Hi Yvonne,
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I am oriental and so is she. I chose the the name Karl because my Chinese name is Ke (軻).
I did get a private reading from long yi and he said almost exactly what you just said.
He said to first let her know I am available which I pretty much did and second to try to find out if she is married or has a kid. I did glance into her car in the parking lot (haha) and didn't see any baby seats or children's stuff but then if she has a kid it could be older than the baby seat stage or living with the father or whatever.
That's a good point about the stupidity Yvonne.
In my opinion, conversation is the most important part of a relationship since if you look back on any long relationship, most of it was in conversation. It doesn't mean that me and her have to be intellectually equal, however, it is important that she has honest interest and curiosity toward my ideas and opinions and doesn't hesitate to ask questions when she doesn't understand me. But yeah you're right, there has to be some kind of intellectual threshold. My ex-wife, who I was with since 18 is as dumb as a raw egg.
I spent 19 years talking directly into the toilet.
Thinking back, we could have ended the relationship much earlier but just didn't know better. If I had only knew what I know now...
long yi said:Your reading:
起卦时间:2013年05月20日12时16分
起卦农历:癸巳年四月十一日午时
神煞:天乙—酉亥 福星—子戌 日禄—巳 羊刃—午 驿马—申 桃花—卯 华盖—戌
干支:癸巳年 丁巳月 丙戌日 甲午时
旬空:午未 子丑 午未 辰巳
六神 伏神 震宫:泽雷随(归魂)
【本 卦】
青龙 ▅▅ ▅▅ 妻财丁未土 应
玄武 ▅▅▅▅▅ 官鬼丁酉金
白虎 子孙庚午火 ▅▅▅▅▅ 父母丁亥水
滕蛇 ▅▅ ▅▅ 妻财庚辰土 世
勾陈 ▅▅ ▅▅ 兄弟庚寅木
朱雀 ▅▅▅▅▅ 父母庚子水
Line 6
She is not sure whether you are attached (line 6; female wei earth) and whether you have a female partner.
Line 5
You feel a connection to this female (line 3, female chen earth) and she is not approaching you.
Line 4 A marriage document with a child hidden behind it. The child line is the empty element under your house of marriage and year. This child does not concern your thoughts.
Line 2 A third party is connected to the relationship in line 4.
Line 1 The parent line is the zi water empty element under the house of spouse.
You must ask yourself and find out:
1. Make sure she know s that you are single.
2. Make sure you find out whether she is attached to someone in any type of relationship, and whether she has a child.
3. Both line 3 and 6 are yin line. Both parties do not have serious interest in starting a connection.
4. Hexagram 17 is a 50/50 hexagram. I do not think the person wish to stay with you to explore long term possibilities. She is in no such position.
From a quick Tarot relationship analysis, the last card is strength reversed. This is not the right partner
Finally, if you are single and draw a reversed Strength card in a love tarot reading, make sure you are not choosing the wrong love matches out of desperation. You may have to put more effort into your own life regardless of the fact you may not have a current partner. However, this doesn’t mean love won’t come your way. You just need to make sure that you can find your own sense of peace and acceptance regardless of the fact that you might not currently be in a romantic relationship.
It is not wise to make a move, but you can check whether she is available indirectly.
Long Yi
Yes Yvonne I am Chinese. (She is Japanese by the way.)
I've actually only became interested in the I Ching recently since my life fell apart and I needed answers.
I am also a student of Jyotish (Indian Astrology).
I came to the conclusion early that the Wen Huang Gua way of reading all 6 lines is the only way to go. Single line reading I can do myself but it is just too limited and inaccurate. The difference between 6 line and single line reading to me is like day and night.
(By the way, I checked out your link on the book and will be buying it if it is still available. I am very interested in pre-Confucian Chinese society.)
However, the I Ching is a mystery to the Chinese too. The text is very antiquated and to fully understand much of it you also have to be somewhat of a Chinese historian. Much of the things it refers to doesn't have modern equivalents such as "Receiving the audience of a king" or "gifts of gold and livestock". If you ever go to a Chinese bookstore you will see a much larger I Ching study section than in any western book store and besides that my Chinese reading is not fluent since I was raised in America.
I am named after a famous swordsman/assassin named Jing Ke, which is interesting since I used to be a national level competitive epee and foil fencer. The reason I chose the name Karl is because it was hard growing up with a foreign name back in the 70s and 80s in America.
I will paste for you what Master long yi said since he is a cool guy and I am sure he won't mind. Just to note his reading is very similar to yours and you both said that even if this isn't the right person that love coming to me is still a possibility or more likely, it is coming. Could you please elaborate?
Yvonne,
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The I ching as you know is one of the 5 Chinese classics. Up till 60 years ago the majority of Chinese couldn't read and got most of the education through rituals and idioms. Things like the I Ching were reserved for scholars and fortune teller who are themselves scholarly.
I am not shy not
have had any problems with women or life in general until the last few years. According to Jyotish it is because I am going through Rahu Mahadasha and Sade Sati. All this should lift for me by the middle of this month.
I have created a thread on Jyotish for you here:
http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/frie...yotish-(Indian-Astrology)&p=175138#post175138
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Karl
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