Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
she'll have to go "under the Influence" ......lots of people I know drink alcohol and phase out during the flight. Some use ambien.
One little known substance which is helpful, and is also not a mind-changing drug, is a beta blocker. A beta blocker is often used for high blood pressure or heart murmurs, but it is also used for stage fright. It prevents the body from having all the symptoms of anxiety, prevents panic, alleviates shaky sweaty hands, trembles, dry mouth.......usually anxiety feeds on itself via the mounting of physical symptoms, so the beta blocker literally blocks all these physical symptoms. In your mind, you can still think its scary but you don't panic at all, the body stays calm. This was recommended for fear of flying in a book by two health-nutrition experts, and the best thing about it was that it actually can cure the fear of flying (or public speaking or performing) because the body 'learns' not to react to the particular stimuli ( such as flying), and after a few times the drug is not needed. Of course a doctor has to okay it for any particular person since it lowers blood pressure.
I used to have a horrible fear of public speaking and the symptoms were awful...trembly lip, the mind going blank, shaking......then a musician friend told me about the beta blocker and I couldn't believe how it solved my problem!
I know the name of one, which I wont say, but I can tell you in PM if you want. Its a prescription drug, but doctors do know about its use for anxiety.
Hi Arabella,
If I could offer a suggestion for your friend, have them look up Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) online. It is absolutely free and there have been a lot of success stories concerning people overcoming phobias with this technique. I use it whenever I start to get anxious or mad and it helps calm me down. As a matter of fact, I used it to help open up my sinuses just before getting on the boards here. I won't claim it as a magic bullet, but for what it has done for people of all stripes with varying issues is absolutely amazing.
fwiw...
"Lullabies were incantations to ward off evil spirits that would harm children.
The origin of the term “lullaby” comes from the words “Lilith abi” which means “Lilith, go away.” In some versions of Jewish folklore Lilith was considered a succubus, a female demon, who seduced men in their sleep. When she bore children from her nighttime sexual encounters, she killed them.
From this, people believed that Lilith was responsible for the unexplained sudden death of babies (what we currently call “Sudden Infant Death Syndrome”). To prevent this “Lilith abi” was written on the amulets surrounding the baby's crib to prevent Lilith or other evil spirits from taking babies away.
Even aside from the mystical origin, singing a child to sleep has been a practice from ancient times and examples are found all over the world. Magical or not, calming a crying child to sleep has been the domain of mothers everywhere since the beginning of time. And according to some mothers, the true purpose of a lullaby is so that the mother can get some needed rest as well."
she'll have to go "under the Influence"
I asked the Yi: Can X overcome her anxiety about flying in time to accompany me?
The casting was Hexagram 31 Unchanging.
My own experience with anxiety from some years back tells me that if you solve one anxiety problem, then the fear may go hide somewhere else. So to fix what's at the base is really important if you want to kill if off once and for all. But I think a good EFT practitioner can achieve even that. You just have to convince the patient!
Arabella,
I have being thinking that 31 describes a good counselor and they way that counselor receives, as read at Wilhelm, make me wonder that If this fear is an unconscious/ suppressed one maybe Art therapy might help your friend.
I've no knowledge of EFT but I agree with getting to the root. However, sometimes that can be exposed through just a simple word, and can then appear as being so obvious, you wonder why you haven't known it all along.
For a couple of months I've had reoccurring nightmares. I'm talking real Stephen King type stuff, full with speculation of a heavy plot of curses, demonic, or at least a deeply rooted psychological trauma. Then, while discussing it with a friend in email, the word "drama" jumped out from my computer screen in GREAT BIG LETTERS. The answer immediately unraveled before my mind. The other person in these nightmares was a drama junkie, whom I'd lived with for 32 years. Now for 12 years I've lived alone, as drama free as possible. Evidently, some part of my brain was missing drama due to boredom or ascetic living, and so materialized this person in extremely dramatic fashion, intensifying to the point that I was waking full of terror and angst, and unreasonably fearful of falling asleep again. That single word, drama, brought it all to my frontal lobe, into the light where I could easily trace it to the cause of those horrible dreams. The nightmares immediately ceased, replaced by pleasant dreams which presented gentle puzzles to solve or to just go along for the ride, or flight, as the case might be.
I know she's also a bit discouraged having done the counseling thing and gotten no relief. .
A mountain with a lake on its summit is stimulated by the moisture from
the lake. It has this advantage because its summit does not jut out as a peak
but is sunken. The image counsels that the mind should be kept humble and
free, so that it may remain receptive to good advice. People soon give up
counseling a man who thinks that he knows everything better than anyone
else.
p.s.I know it sounds crazy , but I "saw" her painting, after reading your initial post.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).