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[rudemuse]

Hello,

Thanks to all who have helped me with a question or two last week. This question is related to that. Regarding 13>35, my question was 'What do I need to understand about my friend?' So 13>35 came up and makes references to a 'noble one'(who's that), and 'great leaders'(?) and mentions 3 years. What do you see here? What do the changing lines mean in a plain way? I am still learning this whole iching as I go, but it's coming slowly. Thank you.

 

[precision grace]

What I cannot fathom is why you haven't told your friend that you would like to have a relationship with her/him.

Here's someone else's reading with exactly the same lines. It may be useful to read it and see if any of that makes sense for your situation. http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?12015-help-please-13-1-3-5-gt-35

 

[rudemuse]

Well to answer that question, he surprised me by expressing he wanted something 'special' to develop between us, Along with that sweet things would come from his mouth, but once we started to misread each other he pulled back and barely calls, barely texts, but there is chemistry there I guess. When he pulled back from me I just began to over-think and not knowing what to say around him. Now he's shy around me, and I'm the same( can't even talk around each other sometimes). But I don't know if that means he's had a change of heart or what. When I move towards closeness he pulls away so we stopped communicating and my guidance has been coming from the iching since then. Now you guys here. all this has happened since January this year. before this, 18 years ago when we were in our 20's.

 

[mirian]

Hi rudemuse

I haven't read your other posts, so this is my personal experience and hopefully you can apply to your own situation,

Hex 13 is usually about relationships, but not necessarily romantic. All lines describe different stages and/or
circumstances related to the relationship in question.
In line 1, people are in the same boat. They have the same opportunities, difficulties, insecurities issues, strengths and weaknesses. For better of worse, they are at the same level.
Line 3 is about how much people build walls against others, the need for protection, always prepared to fight back against unforeseen harm. But the fight never really materialises as there is no need for it, the threat is just mental, emotional, and all the preparation is just self-preservation instinct.
Line 5 is when finally people get over the obstacles, either real or imaginary, to understand each other. The barriers come down and they can share their feelings/emotions/ideas.

I see this reading as a step by step process of people getting to know each other, understanding each other. What happens next? I don't know and I don't think that this reading is telling you. :bows:

 

[rudemuse]

Thank you.