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I have had a rather long dry spell in the dating arena, but have someone who has shown an interest. Thing is I am not exactly sure what he is interested in, and I don't know much about him. I asked Yi what about this guy? 59.1.3.5 to 26 The 3 lines seem to describe my current situation and maybe a way to overcome it. The initial feeling I got from the reading was that though this might not be the everlasting relationship I am looking for, it might help me move forward out of the slump I am in. But I have not had much luck with 59, so I could be misreading it. What do you all think?
 

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Whenever I get 59 line 3 I have a tantrum because it seems codependent to neglect the self in the interest of making something work. Doesn't that set you up for always being overlooked and used? I wonder if the IC is saying "well, if you really want it, here is what you will have to do--forget yourself. But that doesn't mean neccessarily, in my book anyway, that you SHOULD do it. I got that line when I asked if I should go live with a sweetheart and it turned out very bad, and very true, there was no room in his life to let me have a self whatsoever. He was so overwhelmed with what was on his plate that he had no space left on it for me.

But in your reading 26 indicates that there is potential being developed, so who knows.

59.5 seems to be saying that you need to come up with an idea or inspiration that people who are estranged from one another can use as a vehicle to forget their differences and all work together again. Maybe this means you need some collaboration from others or a group that he can also be drawn into.
 

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Seeker, I'd say your take on the reading is good. I'd say line 1 suggests the "partnership" aspect of the relationship and 5 might indicate a sexual aspect to things. (But, and I'm just trying to be straightforward here, this might not be "really good" sex. On the other hand, it still might be a lot better than no sex.)

Agreeing with Pagan's take on line 3 - this one most likely won't be what you are really looking for, especially at first. If you do start the relationship, it might morph over time into something more fulfilling (but then again it might not).

Hope this helps,

- Jeff
 
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Thank you both, and you have hit it right on the head I think. When I said I wasn't sure what he was interested in, that was what I meant, that it seemed like maybe he was interested more in a sexual relationship than anything else. Line 3 might refer to that, as I am really looking for more. So maybe it is saying for the time being I would have to accept less than what I want, but it might develope into more over time. My other thought was that maybe this proposition came about to help me figure out what I want. I had pretty much decided that I did not want just a sexual thing, but then lately, since it has been a while, I had started thinking, well, maybe, if the opportunity presented itself, just to take the edge off. But now that there may be an opportunity I am back to thinking that is not what I want, and I would rather be without than to have something that is not what I am looking for. I guess I will just follow this and see where it leads. Maybe I will understand this reading a bit better once I have talked to him some more. Will keep you posted, and thanks again for the help.
 

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They say men get into a relationship looking for sex and women get into sex looking for a relationship. Just because he wants sex doesn't mean he won't also be drawn to a cozy relationship, its just that the priority is different.
 

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Where is Schastlivchik?
I hope he has a pick on this.

To Seeker, are you under a kind of 'emotional and sexual repression' under a rather long dry spell in the dating arena?
 

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59.5 seems to be saying that you need to come up with an idea or inspiration that people who are estranged from one another can use as a vehicle to forget their differences and all work together again. Maybe this means you need some collaboration from others or a group that he can also be drawn into.

How about a healthy game or a type of sport that could help releasing negative energies perspirations and healthy social activities?
 
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Appreciate all the input, so will be interested in your take on the new developements. This was an online thing, I had not actually seen him. When I did there was just no chemistry whatsoever, soooo not my type. Could that be line 3, that while he and I might have gotten along otherwise, there was no chemistry to cement that level of relationship.

"emotional and sexual repression"??? Well, as I have not been out with anyone in about 6 months, that sort of necessitates a dry spell in the sexual area as well. Is it repression, well, I must admit that the longer I go without someone, on top of having several miserable attempts at relationships, does make me a bit hesitant. I realized recently that I have had so many false starts, that now everytime I have someone who shows interest, I automatically expect it to go nowhere. Maybe that was part of this reading too, that while this person might not have been someone I was interested in, I still need to put myself out there.

"They say men get into a relationship looking for sex and women get into sex looking for a relationship." Profound, and very true. I just wish they would be more honest about what they are looking for.
 

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59 clears the air, removes illusions or barriers to communication. (I suppose any connection that starts online could use some 59.)

Some say the horse in line 1 is gelded. And the 'self' being dispersed in line 3 is the physical self. Beyond that... yes, I think the reading must be talking about putting yourself out there, not just the chemistry-that-wasn't.
 
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I had not thought about line 3 being about dispersing the physical self, now the reading makes sense, and it clears up a couple of past readings I have had as well. I have also gotten a couple of 45s lately and a couple of lines that indicated learning from past mistakes and putting them behind me. So, it does seem Yi is telling me its time. For a bit, I was working through 24, returning to myself and making myself ready for a new life. Guess now its time to begin that new life, and I can't do that hiding here in the shadows. There is a great line from one of my favorite songs,

dream and the way will be clear, pray and the angels will hear, leap and the net will appear.

Guess that about sums it up
 
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Asked if I should pursue anyone else online and got 44.2.3.6 to 45. Doesn't look promising. 45, as I know it, usually indicates a gathering. Is this perhaps saying I have a better chance meeting someone at some kind of gathering where I meet people in person and share a common interest???
 

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"dream and the way will be clear, pray and the angels will hear, leap and the net will appear."
Seeker, what song are those lyrics from?
 
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Yly, I thought of that, but the 44 and the changing lines seem to indicate otherwise, unless I am misunderstanding something.

Susan, the song is Right Outta Nowhere by Christine Kane. It's bascially about starting over, kind of my theme song right now
 

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