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1. Should I keep my hopes up of having her back?
For this I got Hexagram 58.2, turning to Hexagram 17, Following.
My interpretation of this divination was that I was on the right path, of self-improvement, and that path would bring me happiness and fulfillment down the line. I should focus on on finding my inner joy, and that would bring forth outer joy.
2. Should I contact her?
I asked this question because since we broke up I have been trying to avoid contact with her, to give me the chance to heal.
I received Hexagram 60.2.6, thus changing to Hexagram 42, Increase.
My take on this was that even though I had established this boundary to help me heal, and I was on the right path, I should be more balanced, and not limit myself so much. If we feel like we should act, we shouldn't stop ourselves from doing, risking to not favour our own values and our destiny.
I think Hexagram 42 also pointed in this same direction, of relaxing our self-imposed boundaries and acting.
3. Will she come back to me?
Now this is when it gets tricky: I received Hexagram 48.2.5, changing to Hexagram 15, Humility.
I still haven't been able to interpret this divination, specially the changing lines, which seem to contradict each other. Is the second line, mentioning the shooting of the fish and the broken bucket, acknowledging the current state of our relationship? Is the fifth line saying there is still hope? Or perhaps it's just saying that this well (our relationship) is done for and moving on is for the best?
Strangely phrased question... should we have hope?
Well in the end do our hopes obey us anyway ?
I could be way off but wanted to answer just to confirm about the 60.2.6.>42 answer. I wondered if Diamanda was accidentally looking at line 1 instead.
Rather than look too far ahead why not just see what happens when you contact her, what she says.
I wonder how much of a pragmatist she is ? That is I see it as a case of her thinking about where she will do best rather than an overwhelming pull of the heart. I think she will weigh things up in a rather practical way. A lot of people do view relationships in a materialistic way, they think about where they are 'better off' not just financially but emotionally too.
You know each other very well after 7 years but 7 years is a very long time just to date isn't it ?
Lin 60.1 says that not going out of the door is ok. I was not interpreting that one. Line 60.2 gives a warning, there's a feeling of urgency, to go out of the door or else there will be misfortune. Perhaps I didn't phrase it clearly. I meant that since there was actually a person who did walk out of the door, she perhaps felt it would be a bad mistake to not do so. Hence I feel that 60.2 refers to your ex.perhaps diamanda mistakenly interpreted line 1
Lin 60.1 says that not going out of the door is ok. I was not interpreting that one. Line 60.2 gives a warning, there's a feeling of urgency, to go out of the door or else there will be misfortune. Perhaps I didn't phrase it clearly. I meant that since there was actually a person who did walk out of the door, she perhaps felt it would be a bad mistake to not do so. Hence I feel that 60.2 refers to your ex.
I should act if I feel it is right to do so.
I could be wrong, specially since I am fairly new to this, but I felt like it made a lot of sense when looking at the whole picture.
2. Should I contact her?
I asked this question because since we broke up I have been trying to avoid contact with her, to give me the chance to heal.
I received Hexagram 60.2.6, thus changing to Hexagram 42, Increase.
My take on this was that even though I had established this boundary to help me heal, and I was on the right path, I should be more balanced, and not limit myself so much. If we feel like we should act, we shouldn't stop ourselves from doing, risking to not favour our own values and our destiny.
I think Hexagram 42 also pointed in this same direction, of relaxing our self-imposed boundaries and acting.
It is a bit of a balancing act between reserve and letting it all hang out but this answer calls for less reserve, it calls for you not to hide but to speak out. It is a very clear answer and I think you cracked it except I'd say it isn't only a matter of limiting yourself less it is also a matter of coming forth. There is a warning of not going forth, not expressing yourself as much as you need to. That is if you want her back let her know in some way.
Ordinarily since she left you I would say it is up to her to ask to come back if she wants to but Yi seems to be encouraging you to come forth. I know it seems risky, probably is, but still Yi advises you not to clamp down so hard on your impulses. 42 is a time of increase, opportunity and blessing so don't lose opportunity through reserve.
For what it's worth--I wish I had time to reply more in depth--I received 60.2 earlier this year about a job opportunity that required me to make a cold call inquiry to a friend's contact. I was apprehensive about this (it is not my style at all) but I am glad I did because they immediately hired me for a very lucrative and easy project. I was really hesitating about whether to make the cold call and my question was something like "What's your take, Yi?" I took 60.2 to mean I really need to step out and make contact, and I'm glad I took Yi's advice. 60.2.6 isn't ambiguous at all in my opinion, it's a clear answer to stay in touch with her.
I would also view it that way if only line 60.2 was changing. My experience with the combination 60.2.6 in a 'romantic' context was one of pointless action. But I hope it plays out differently for you buddhio.For what it's worth--I wish I had time to reply more in depth--I received 60.2 earlier this year about a job opportunity that required me to make a cold call inquiry to a friend's contact. I was apprehensive about this (it is not my style at all) but I am glad I did because they immediately hired me for a very lucrative and easy project. I was really hesitating about whether to make the cold call and my question was something like "What's your take, Yi?" I took 60.2 to mean I really need to step out and make contact, and I'm glad I took Yi's advice.
But I hope it plays out differently for you buddhio.
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