questions about my love sentiments

[hubble]

Hi all!
Im new here, also I can't speak english well, but I hope we'll understand each other. I need your help.
Last days I had some question to Ji about my love sentiments. The short story is, he living other coutry, we seldom together, but till now I felt that we are really close. He's a little strange and also proud boy. Last week happened,I got a message from F, what he wanted to send an other girl. His mistake shocked me really, but the bigger shock is that, after sms he lost.
He leaved me alone with my pain and I don' understand it. Im sad,but I don't want to write sms him.

So, my 1.question was: How does he feel in this situation (that he hurt me)? I got 40. changing line 2,3,4,6 to 52.
My 2.question was: How does he feel about that I lost.What influence will be later if I don't start contact with him? I got 18. changing 2. to 52 again.
3.question was: Why doesn't write me after he caused me pain? What happen in him?
I got Hex 22.1.- and 52. again.
What does it mean? Three times turning to 52. Does he need stilness? I need so much.

 

[eastern_girl]

Hi, Hubble,

If I understand well, F sent you a message that was in fact meant for another girl. And then never called back to explain. I wonder if it really was an unintentional mistake from his part or a "drunk text"...you know, when you pretend you got the wrong number, when in fact you didn't and you're just playing games... Nevertheless, he doesn't sound very mature. Nor does he sound like he really cares. I think your first reading (hex 40.2.3.4.6 to 52) kinda confirms that. Maybe he's not aware that he hurt you or he just doesn't think about that anymore. Just my 2 cents. Hope this helps.

All the best!

 

[hubble]

Hi Eastern Girl!
Yes, u understand me well. Thank u and also for ur helping. U know, I was optimist when I read this Hex., cause we met 2 months before and everything was wonderful and special, my plan was I go again to him at September. 2 weeks before he told me: 'with you im calm, when im not with you im a little nervous..." I trust him and I feel the same. For that was I so optimist when three times the hexagrams turded to 52.

 

[eastern_girl]

Well, if you read the image of hex 52 in Wilhelm translation,

The image of KEEPING STILL.
Thus the superior man
Does not permit his thoughts
To go beyond his situation.

...and then relate it to your question (How does he feel in this situation (that he hurt me)?) and also to hex 40 having so many changing lines, it does look like he doesn't care very much about the incident. Again, this is just my take on this, others might have a different opinion. I don't want to spoil your optimism, you know better than anyone here what's really going on between the two of you. Usually, when I get hexagram 40 with so many changing lines, I know it's time for me to move on.

 

[hubble]

Thank you so much Eastern Girl!
Already I see clearer. Many times I talk with Ji, but now I couldn't understand well cause im not calm at all.
Already I got Hex.40 with F. 1 month before, after when we was together. F and me, we are diffcult person, we r not too easy, and also we living very different. So after when we was together(wasn't perfect, but really special and nice) I asked Ji, "how does he felt in our time together? I got 40. changing 1.4. to 19. Was so nice.
Thank you!

 

[long yi]

Hexagram 52

神煞：天乙—卯巳　福星—辰　日禄—子　羊刃—亥　驿马—巳　桃花—子　华盖—未
干支：癸巳年　己未月　癸卯日　丙辰时
旬空：午未　　子丑　　辰巳　　子丑
40.2.3.4.6 to 52
六神　 伏神 　　　震宫：雷水解　　　　　　　　　　艮宫：艮为山（六冲）
　　　　　　　　　【本　卦】　　　　　　　　　　　【变　卦】
白虎　　　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　妻财庚戌土　　×→　▅▅▅▅▅　兄弟丙寅木　世
滕蛇　　　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　官鬼庚申金　应　　　▅▅　▅▅　父母丙子水　　
勾陈　　　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　子孙庚午火　　○→　▅▅　▅▅　妻财丙戌土　　
朱雀　　　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　子孙戊午火　　×→　▅▅▅▅▅　官鬼丙申金　应
青龙　　　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　妻财戊辰土　世○→　▅▅　▅▅　子孙丙午火　　
玄武　父母庚子水　▅▅　▅▅　兄弟戊寅木　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　妻财丙辰土　　
Read last hexagram analysis: 52.5 – no hope for relationship
22.1 to 52
六神　 伏神 　　　艮宫：山火贲（六合）　　　　　艮宫：艮为山（六冲）
　　　　　　　　　【本　卦】　　　　　　　　　　　【变　卦】
白虎　　　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　官鬼丙寅木　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　官鬼丙寅木　世
滕蛇　　　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　妻财丙子水　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　妻财丙子水　　
勾陈　　　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　兄弟丙戌土　应　　　▅▅　▅▅　兄弟丙戌土　　
朱雀　子孙丙申金　▅▅▅▅▅　妻财己亥水　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　子孙丙申金　应
青龙　父母丙午火　▅▅　▅▅　兄弟己丑土　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　父母丙午火　　
玄武　　　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　官鬼己卯木　世○→　▅▅　▅▅　兄弟丙辰土　
22.1 and 22.4 couples. Male is with female rival for fun.
52.3 and 52.6 Male at odds with love rival.
52.2 wu fire: relationship does not work this year.
18.2 to 52

六神　 伏神 　　　巽宫：山风蛊（归魂）　　　　　艮宫：艮为山（六冲）
　　　　　　　　　【本　卦】　　　　　　　　　　　【变　卦】
白虎　　　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　兄弟丙寅木　应　　　▅▅▅▅▅　兄弟丙寅木　世
滕蛇　子孙辛巳火　▅▅　▅▅　父母丙子水　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　父母丙子水　　
勾陈　　　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　妻财丙戌土　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　妻财丙戌土　　
朱雀　　　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　官鬼辛酉金　世　　　▅▅▅▅▅　官鬼丙申金　应
青龙　　　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　父母辛亥水　　○→　▅▅　▅▅　子孙丙午火　　
玄武　　　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　妻财辛丑土　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　妻财丙辰土　　
Marriage document: line 5, zi water, empty element under the house of marriage. No hope for a successful relationship. The rival is younger. Line 6 is her and couples with line 2 (change line). He is involved with her.
52.6 and 52.3: Male At odds with the love rival.
52: relationship will not fly: six strike hexagram

Do not waste your time. There is nothing in it.
If you inquire about a relationship and get six strike hexagram, this relationship will not work at all.

 

[hubble]

Hi Long yii! Thank you!
Please help me to understand the context my Hexagrams with 5 in 52. "Read last hexagram analysis: 52.5 – no hope for relationship"
He did a mistake, or maybe the sms was direct how Eastern girl says. My three question was about F sentiments, cause I didn't understand why he lost, after he shocked me with his sms. I visited him June, was wonderful week, we was really happy together. After I came home and now really difficult that we are can't be together. He many times wrote me and said he's not well, he's a nervous without me. I feel the same now. For that was amazing that 3 times Hexagrams wants turn to 52.
It means he wanted to forget me?
Already he called me and wrote me "I love you.. pls come..."
Im thanful to you

 

[hubble]

Dear eastern girl, dear long yi!
I thinking about this sms more.and what you wrote me about... Cause F so many times write me and call me also till now ,for that I don't understand the whole situation. When this sms shocked me, my first queston was very simple: "what was it?" I got 34.5. to 43.
Is confirm that sms wasn't accidental, unintentional mistake? Yes?
Im grateful for any help!
hubble