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To give background, a friend of mine has come into my life more frequently lately. We have no blatant past history of outright reasons not to trust, but I am a bit (perhaps overly) cautious of trusting people - my past had jaded me a bit I’m afraid. And I’ve noticed distinct behavioral changes recently, when she drinks too much, that make her intentions and/or integrity a bit of a concern for me. Ergo, I asked the following questions.
“Please advise if it’s in my best interest to trust Friend.” 25.1.5.6 to 16.
25 - At first to me this reads as yes, no reason not to trust at this time. She is of innocence and modesty, but further reading this hex sometimes called the unexpected gives me mixed messages.
Line 1 - without entanglement, going on is good fortune. Does this mean not entangling with her overall or with my mistrust specifically?
Line 5 - not sure about this one... I’m afflicted with these trust issues? Trying to cover it up (via medicinal herbs) will do no good? Like putting a bandaid over a gaping wound.
Line 6 - not sure on this either. Seems without entanglement causes actions of blunders. Trusting or not trusting bears no fruit either way.
Hex 16 - reign in my enthusiasm, possible delusions afoot. My imagination is getting the best of me.
“Please provide objective opinion of Friend’s behavior changes when drinking”. 48.2.5 to 15
48 - The Well. I could potentially read this is as drinking may cause the person the change (city to move), but their internal essence remains the same (the well).
Line 2 - things “leak” when she drinks too much.
Line 5 - but purity of essence remains
Hex 15 - Integrity. Either she is of integrity. Or who she is when she’s drinking is who she really is plain and simple.
“Please provide objective opinion of our relationship” 33.4 to 53
33 - Retreat is needed in order to block small people (but do I retreat from her? Or maybe my trust issues are the small people?).
Line 4 - In backing away from this relationship, I am able to block these small people (whomever they may be - her or my own inner small voices)
53 - These issues of mistrust, and our relationship in general, will require a long time of gradual development before anything is resolved or established.
“Did I see what I thought was her misconduct accurately (that’s causing me to mistrust her)?” 1.1.5 to 50.
1 - This makes me think of imagination. I imagined it. Or maybe I’m wishful thinking that’s what this hex means.
Line 1 - let it be; let what I thought I saw go. Do not act on what I thought I saw.
Line 5 - something about this will become obvious, flying high. Perhaps an omen of sorts if the dragon is flying in heaven. Need to see a great people? Not sure who that would be.
50 - the vessel of transformation tells me this is possibly something internally in my emotions that’s transforming at the moment.
“Please advise on best attitude to this relationship overall.” 19.1.2.6 to 23.
19 - continue in approaching this relationship, it portends great success. Don’t act prematurely though or misfortune. (All the lines below seem to say the same thing... is there much difference in these I’m not picking up on?)
Line 1 - some kind of influence nearing, be constant in your sincerity; it brings good fortune.
Line 2 - some kind of influence nearing. Bears fruit.
Line 6 - something nearing great heartedly, it will be successful.
Hex 23 - I generally read resultant hex’s as background or how this answer relates to me rather than future outcome. I hope in this case it’s not the future outcome because it sounds like all that nearing influence and success leads to a breaking up of our relations...doesn’t sound very successful. So I’m hoping this means stripping way my own issues and bad programs that cause me such distress in trusting people... hopefully.
“What’s up w how I react to Friend drinking “too much”?” 11.1.3.6 to 4.
11 - Flow. Creative energy coming and going.
Line 1 - stuff (baggage perhaps) deep within me are being ripped out by the roots in these testing and triggering situations. But they’re not without good purpose.
Line 3 - trying to cope with life’s ups and downs. The truth of this matter brings sadness, but it shouldn’t. Her getting “too drunk” isn’t all bad.
Line 6 - walls built previously are coming down (or past social structures are crumbling). True colors of my and her nature are becoming more apparent. There is pain in this.
Hex 4 - I’m operating and reacting from a place of ignorance, immaturity about this. Or from simply not knowing what to think. Or the Yi is sick of me asking questions about her and these problems I’m having.
“What’s up with me here reacting with suspicion and mistrust?” 26.6 to 11.
This combo speaks to me as I react this way because I’m trying to be in the flow with heaven’s mandate - determining is this in my best interest? Is this in alignment with my path and values? Also a release of pent up stuff from the past that affected by ability to trust others.
Just to note, these questions have stemmed over a period of a few days... not done all right after the other. Hopefully I’m not asking too many. And I appreciate your help interpreting these, as I feel my interpretations are either too hopeful or too cynical. It’d be nice to get objective opinions from those with more experience who aren’t in the thick of the situation. Thank you kindly.
“Please advise if it’s in my best interest to trust Friend.” 25.1.5.6 to 16.
25 - At first to me this reads as yes, no reason not to trust at this time. She is of innocence and modesty, but further reading this hex sometimes called the unexpected gives me mixed messages.
Line 1 - without entanglement, going on is good fortune. Does this mean not entangling with her overall or with my mistrust specifically?
Line 5 - not sure about this one... I’m afflicted with these trust issues? Trying to cover it up (via medicinal herbs) will do no good? Like putting a bandaid over a gaping wound.
Line 6 - not sure on this either. Seems without entanglement causes actions of blunders. Trusting or not trusting bears no fruit either way.
Hex 16 - reign in my enthusiasm, possible delusions afoot. My imagination is getting the best of me.
“Please provide objective opinion of Friend’s behavior changes when drinking”. 48.2.5 to 15
48 - The Well. I could potentially read this is as drinking may cause the person the change (city to move), but their internal essence remains the same (the well).
Line 2 - things “leak” when she drinks too much.
Line 5 - but purity of essence remains
Hex 15 - Integrity. Either she is of integrity. Or who she is when she’s drinking is who she really is plain and simple.
“Please provide objective opinion of our relationship” 33.4 to 53
33 - Retreat is needed in order to block small people (but do I retreat from her? Or maybe my trust issues are the small people?).
Line 4 - In backing away from this relationship, I am able to block these small people (whomever they may be - her or my own inner small voices)
53 - These issues of mistrust, and our relationship in general, will require a long time of gradual development before anything is resolved or established.
“Did I see what I thought was her misconduct accurately (that’s causing me to mistrust her)?” 1.1.5 to 50.
1 - This makes me think of imagination. I imagined it. Or maybe I’m wishful thinking that’s what this hex means.
Line 1 - let it be; let what I thought I saw go. Do not act on what I thought I saw.
Line 5 - something about this will become obvious, flying high. Perhaps an omen of sorts if the dragon is flying in heaven. Need to see a great people? Not sure who that would be.
50 - the vessel of transformation tells me this is possibly something internally in my emotions that’s transforming at the moment.
“Please advise on best attitude to this relationship overall.” 19.1.2.6 to 23.
19 - continue in approaching this relationship, it portends great success. Don’t act prematurely though or misfortune. (All the lines below seem to say the same thing... is there much difference in these I’m not picking up on?)
Line 1 - some kind of influence nearing, be constant in your sincerity; it brings good fortune.
Line 2 - some kind of influence nearing. Bears fruit.
Line 6 - something nearing great heartedly, it will be successful.
Hex 23 - I generally read resultant hex’s as background or how this answer relates to me rather than future outcome. I hope in this case it’s not the future outcome because it sounds like all that nearing influence and success leads to a breaking up of our relations...doesn’t sound very successful. So I’m hoping this means stripping way my own issues and bad programs that cause me such distress in trusting people... hopefully.
“What’s up w how I react to Friend drinking “too much”?” 11.1.3.6 to 4.
11 - Flow. Creative energy coming and going.
Line 1 - stuff (baggage perhaps) deep within me are being ripped out by the roots in these testing and triggering situations. But they’re not without good purpose.
Line 3 - trying to cope with life’s ups and downs. The truth of this matter brings sadness, but it shouldn’t. Her getting “too drunk” isn’t all bad.
Line 6 - walls built previously are coming down (or past social structures are crumbling). True colors of my and her nature are becoming more apparent. There is pain in this.
Hex 4 - I’m operating and reacting from a place of ignorance, immaturity about this. Or from simply not knowing what to think. Or the Yi is sick of me asking questions about her and these problems I’m having.
“What’s up with me here reacting with suspicion and mistrust?” 26.6 to 11.
This combo speaks to me as I react this way because I’m trying to be in the flow with heaven’s mandate - determining is this in my best interest? Is this in alignment with my path and values? Also a release of pent up stuff from the past that affected by ability to trust others.
Just to note, these questions have stemmed over a period of a few days... not done all right after the other. Hopefully I’m not asking too many. And I appreciate your help interpreting these, as I feel my interpretations are either too hopeful or too cynical. It’d be nice to get objective opinions from those with more experience who aren’t in the thick of the situation. Thank you kindly.