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Also good advice for sprouting. Sprouts are fragile and so's this relationship. Doesn't mean it's a bad idea, just be careful.At any rate, I want to preserve my own integrity above anything else, whatever I choose to do.
Thank you the reply, that's a fascinating thought about meeting up with him again. There's too many deeply rooted, unconscious components of this relationship for me to think it's anything but the former of those two options. Thus, "have I really done everything that I can to avoid unpaid debts coming back to me?" The thought of this repeating itself is a nightmare. I feel like the wave has broken and has nearly reached the shore, but I wonder why it has to be like this, with me not really being able to alter the situation in any way - totally beyond my capacities. If I've learnt anything so far it's that you can't mess with the fabric of things, with people's trajectories - when I try I only end up changing myself, often for the worse.You've already shared with us your decision but I thought it might be interesting to dissect what the hexagrams seemed to advise.
3.2 may be referring to your uncertainty to connecting with him again, a recognition that you could only judge him from a child's perspective before and so perhaps it's time to reconsider now from your adult perspective.
3.4 sounds like the attempt to reconnect.
3.5 seems to warn against trying for a deep meaningful bond.
The resulting hexagram, 54. The Marrying Maiden, describes a situation where people are going through the prescribed roles in hopes of eventually arriving at the head of the line, although that may not happen in this lifetime.
Thus, if you feel uncomfortable in the way things were left before, if you are feeling "He's my dad so I want to honor the connection by keeping in touch at Christmas and birthdays" then there might be value in returning the call.
The image/advice for The Marrying Maiden says "The superior man understands the transitory in the light of the eternity of the end." Could this be saying that this is just one lifetime with this man and you may meet up again in the next one? Or maybe it's encouraging you not to worry about it - this too shall pass!
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
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+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).