Relationship 44.1.5 > 14, 22.1.2.3.6 > 7

[Daisuke]

Hi everyone,

I am new to the forum, but have been practicing I-ching for a few years now. I still consider myself a novice, as the I-ching is very complex. I was hoping to get some insight on hexagrams I cast in regards to a situation I am in. I want to reach out to a past love of mine. Things ended on a bad note between us and there was a lot of hurt due to misunderstandings. I am hoping that we have both calmed down enough now and matured enough to reconcile. I asked Yi these two questions:

1. What will happen if I send a message to M today? 44.1.5 > 14
2. What will M's reaction be if I send a message today? 22.1.2.3.6 > 7

Thank you all for your help!

 

[diamanda]

Hi Daisuke, and welcome.

What will happen if I send a message to M today? 44.1.5 > 14
Tuck Chang says: "The wish of line 5 is to mate with, and to subdue, line 1".
So here the male (44.5) manages to reach the female (44.1).
The female didn't see this coming but feels happy and elevated about it (14).

What will M's reaction be if I send a message today? 22.1.2.3.6 > 7
The male changes and beautifies himself thoroughly, and takes action.
So I believe the female will be pleased with this change.