relationship ending or beginning to be better

[psychonaut613]

Help from you guys again would be very much appreciated. to clarify in the title i just meant that things would have to "begin to be better" its the only way things can go.

Any of you who've read my recent posts know that I'm in relationship troubles. She said she wanted time to think about things and so I didn't talk to her for a while but then said something stupid in txt that started argument and probably spoiled the whole her needing time thing, maybe pushing her farther away. She has said she wants to break up now, and there is talk of seeing other people. I sent a damage control email and suggested she think about things...

I have not been patient and have asked many questions lately. Normally I give a few days or at least a while between questions to help me understand the answer.
I have asked What is my best course of action and got 41.5.6> 60. And I have asked about the status of our relationship and got 37.2.4 > 1. These were before the last argument. My personal thoughts on what's going on here not necessarilly based on ic answers were that I just need to step back and not do anything until she actually misses me enough to want to see me. she usually does when we fight. But this time I want to make sure she knows it isn't so easy to get me back(we cant keep doing on again off again)

but after the argument, today I asked again on the status of the relationship and got 19 unchanging. I asked if something was approaching(with me and her in mind) to clarify 19 and got 13.6>49
Mostly I wish to know about 19, thoughts please and thank you :bows:

 

[moss elk]

watch this movie if you can, and see how the main characters health is affected by a bad relationship:

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0111001/

 

[psychonaut613]

It would be a good relationship if I could solve my problem. She's much calmer after a good roll in the hay. I think I got my answer to 19 and 13.6>49 though, it kinda fits with the phone conversation we just had. she called me. We're at an impasse bc she won't acquiesce to the given solution, so she's decided things won't work.