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Hi, I need some help in understanding the answers given to me. Recently i have this friend whom I've known since 10 years ago, but only last month we became closer after he started talking to me in social media. Now we are involved in an intimate friendship and my feelings for him is slowly developing along the process which I'm afraid of. We have talked about various stuffs, through the talks he has given me an impression that he wants a casual relationship. As for me I did not reveal any kind of feelings from me to him because of my fear of rejection, instead I foolishly just mentioned about wanting freedom and everything which might give him an impression that I'm not looking for commitments too.

Hence i asked Yi,
1) What difference will it make to us if i ask him about his feelings? 31.3.5.6 to 35
2) What is his feelings towards me? 3.1.5 to 2
I know this question is not a good question to ask but i still asked out of curiosity.

3) How will we progress if i just continue to let things happen and do nothing about it? 9.2.5 to 22

Appreciate some help, thanks pals!
 

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I'll give my opinion.

First hex (31 > 35) I instinctively feel will clear up your uncertainty. Be clear in what you desire; be honest about your feelings without being "needy".

As for hex 3.1.5.... He probably wants to initiate something (hex 2) but is struggling with it (Hex 3)...

Though I really feel the best advice is 3rd . Letting things be is graceful (hex 22)... line 5 in hex 9 is positive... things will come together. But patience is required since hex 9 is about small steps.
 

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Thanks MoonCatcher!

However i guess i screwed up these few days :/
We were actually chatting normally until last night he suddenly stopped replying, he usually would text a good night kiss but yesterday he just stop. And today so far we haven't been talking to each other.

I asked Yi what is the reason behind this sudden loss of contact and it is "32.2 to 62."
I wonder what the 'regrets vanish' means in this case?
 

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Hi Elusive... there's no such thing as screwing up... a person who you're compatible with will see past petty things. I think you need to relax.

There are number of reasons why contact may have broken - maybe your energy is too much and he's taking space. People sense energy. Or maybe he's testing how you react to his broken contact. If you've been playing hard to get - this makes sense. He could be testing to see how invested you are in him emotionally. I.e calling your bluff. Or simply he's busy.

I think the Yi is talking about enduring this silence (32). The line is about strength. You probably feel like the little bird flying alone in 62 - but must keep a low profile. Don't contact him, let things be.

I know it's difficult when you are really into someone. The only thing you can do in the meantime is focus your energy elsewhere and ground yourself. .
 

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Hi MoonCatcher, yes I think I'm more towards the latter, I've been rather passive with him. I screwed up because he is aware that I'm meeting a guy whom I've told him is good looking. It's like there is no need to say but I somehow can't keep my mouth shut ahhh, I can't hide any secrets.

I've never thought of contacting him first and yes I'll follow yi's answer to not contact him and just see how thing goes. Thanks!
 

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Oh I see!! Well this info you've divulged changes things.

Honestly, you shouldn't try those tactics to test how much he likes you. Now you've probably created insecurity in him and he doesn't know how to act. When you get the next chance, I think you'd benefit from spilling the beans and telling him how you feel. You are playing games that will bite you in the ass. (we've all been there though). Maybe say you felt bad for making an inconsiderate comment; but this made you realise how much you actually like him.
 

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He actually contacted me during midnight on that day! But yes you are right i shouldn't be playing any games because i would feel terrible if someone else does this to me too!

We met the following day and everything went naturally, but i didn't manage to tell him how i feel. He still gives me an easygoing feeling. Like i did try to ask whether did he have any of such "friendship" in the past and whether is it similar to us, he said roughly.

One last question, i asked Yi about the potential of this turning into something official, the answer is "58.1.2.3 to 31"

I've read through the verses but couldn't understand the answer at all, what does it mean?
 

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