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whiteowl

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Hi. I would really apreciate getting your opinion on these answears from the Yi. I find myself a little bit overwhealmed. I am between to girls, one whom i've been for over a year, and another that i fell inlove with at my working place.

I first asked about my current situation. The answear was hex 20 with 6/3 and 9/5

Next i asked if it would be favorable to be with the other girl.
Yi responded 24 with 6/4

Since i work close to this woman but am confuse about what to do, i asked the Yi "how should i behave towards this woman"
The answear was 45 with 6/3

The reason why i am confuse is that i don't seem to get an answear one way or the other.
When i asked about my girlfriend "What's the image of my relationship with her",
i got: 56.1.2 which ok seems like a general picture, but when i asked "what future does my relationship with her have" i got 51.3.4

I don't really know what to make of this.
 
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I first asked about my current situation. The answer was hex 20.3,5

The lines describe you as having to make a choice between which girl to go for but it says that you must consider the outcome before you finally decide. The next line also says to examine the effects of deciding one over another and to make sure that you are not making a mistake.


Next i asked if it would be favorable to be with the other girl.
Yi responded 24.4

This says no, you have a good girlfriend already.

Since i work close to this woman but am confuse about what to do, i asked the Yi "how should i behave towards this woman"
The answer was 45.3

Consider yourself an outsider with this woman, you need to gain entry into the group if you want to be with her.

When i asked about my girlfriend "What's the image of my relationship with her",
i got: 56.1.2

The first line says don't get involved with the other woman otherwise you are going to make a fool of yourself and your girlfriend will hate you. The next line says you have a good and solid friend, you are lucky.

when i asked "what future does my relationship with her have" i got 51.3.4

The lines say that you are due for an upheaval in your relationship so it is up to you to sort it out.
 

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Thank you for your reply willowfox. It's helpful. I have a question. In hex 45.3, who is yin on 6, because i read in Huang that "the topmost yin is devoted and gentle".

"Bringing together: sighs. Nothing is favorable." The text still encourages him to go forward because the topmost yin is devoted and gentle. Although the union is not perfect, there is no fault, only slight regret.
 

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should i have mentioned the outcome of the other hexagrams?

20.3.5 -> 52 Mountain
24.4 -> 51 Thunder
45.3 -> 31 which sounds like having a relationship because we are atracted to each other
56.1.2 -> 14 Great Harvest (which i don't quite understand in the context of the question)
 

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Thank you for your reply willowfox. It's helpful. I have a question. In hex 45.3, who is yin on 6, because i read in Huang that "the topmost yin is devoted and gentle".

"Bringing together: sighs. Nothing is favorable." The text still encourages him to go forward because the topmost yin is devoted and gentle. Although the union is not perfect, there is no fault, only slight regret.
I am not quite sure that I understand your question, as you know you received line 45.3 so what is the query with line 45.6?
 

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In the Huang translation, that is the text for 6/3 for "Going forward, no fault"
 

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In the Huang translation, that is the text for 6/3 for "Going forward, no fault"
Okay, now I understand. I don't like Huang's translation at all so I sold his book to a second hand bookshop to get rid of it.
 

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