relationship path 61.5 to 41 ???

[lahunter212]

i asked what would happen if i continued on the same "relationship path" that i am on.

(i.e. am i heading in the right direction, or do i need to make some changes?)

new to interpreting and this answer isnt very clear to me. i would be very thankful for some help with its interpreatation...please.

 

[jwrig04]

I usually only interpret my own readings, I have no idea about your circumstances, but if I had asked your question and received this answer I would assume that I should not continue on this "same relationship path".

It's not the best of paths, in fact it is capable of consuming you. I think you are aware of this too. Somehow you are going against nature, eventually this will back fire and you will be left empty, life circumstances will naturally reveal and the relationship path you chose I think will drain you. It seems there is a different way to get your needs, you can have a better future, but this path seems not the way to it.

According to what I interpret, there is something lacking in this relationship path. The elements on this relationship path are what you think you need to show who you really are, but instead they mask the real inner you. The truth of you. How special you actually are.

Continue on this path and these elements will eventually consume you. It appears that you are not really getting what you need within, only what you think you need for the outer world. Life circumstances will influence and then you will feel very empty and it will get worse from then on, perhaps lonely, and very miserable...

The relationship path seems to have been chosen due to a feeling of insecurity in the outside world, perhaps a need to feel powerful, important, or fit in, by use of material or surface elements. (By surface I mean common interests, or the like -something other than that deep intimate close strong bond of soul-mate love).

Yes, on the surface it seems a good plan, all the exterior things are in place, the common interests, the common material goals, outside things, which are serving to disguise the inner truths. It seems all surface somehow, if this makes any sense to you, it also seems that you can quite happily do this easily for a time, but lifes circumstances will erode this and remove even more than what you started with.

I think it is also giving another message besides telling you about what would happen should you pursue this path, I think it is asking you to control your instincts and immediate gratifications, restrict, curb and still your self and search your soul for what you really really really want and need and ignore what you think society/others expect/want you to have, and ultimately advising you to find a better way to getting this.

Does this help or is it total off mark?!

Best wishes

 

[dobro p]

i asked what would happen if i continued on the same "relationship path" that i am on.

(i.e. am i heading in the right direction, or do i need to make some changes?)

new to interpreting and this answer isnt very clear to me. i would be very thankful for some help with its interpreatation...please.

The valuation for this line is 'without fault'. That means that the direction you're moving in the relationship is without fault. Nothing to worry about.

The other meaning in the line is that you're capturing truth and making connections in this way. (Or maybe: your sincerity is connecting with other people.) That's all good.

 

[Trojina]

i asked what would happen if i continued on the same "relationship path" that i am on.

(i.e. am i heading in the right direction, or do i need to make some changes?)

new to interpreting and this answer isnt very clear to me. i would be very thankful for some help with its interpreatation...please.

Baffled by jwrigs take on this reading hmm anyhow my actual experience of this line relates to people who have with hindsight been really good for me.

For me on several occasions its come up re questions about if I'm using the right person for a particular service, you know people like therapists and so on. Each time this line has shown the person is the right one to help me in whatever area its in...very enriching I think

Transposing my associations with the line to your query i would say the relationship path you are on is a fulfilling one or will show itself to be over time. I think there is sincerity, a real connection is made.

 

[willowfox]

relationship path 61.5 to 41 ???

What will happen is that you will attract more people to you, there will be a greater bonding between you and your "friends", so if you are talking about someone special, then expect a much stronger bond between you. So, continue as you have been doing.

 

[jwrig04]

mmm...
I'm terribly sorry, I made a huge mistake -I had a go at interpreting Hex 60 instead of 61.5....
!
very bad....

 

[bamboo]

Jwrig04.......I was trying to figure out what hex you were interpreting!! I thought maybe it was 61.4. Don't worry, these kinds of errors happen. keeps us on our toes

 

[Samgirl]

i asked what would happen if i continued on the same "relationship path" that i am on.

(i.e. am i heading in the right direction, or do i need to make some changes?)

61 talks about inner truth. We know what is going on, we can feel it and know what this feeling is telling us. Line 5 talks about genuine truth, we see things as they are, from within and out. This is a powerful force and it is what is needed to create external unity.

To me it does not seem to encourage or discourage your path. You question was "what would happen if I continued...", so it seems to me that you will be able to gain "genuine" insight. You will learn from this.

 

[lahunter212]

thanks guys for sharing your insite.

in a nutshell...

i have been "spending time" with a certain person for (8) months now, and although we both agree that "relationship" situation between us wouldnt work out, we both enjoy each other's company a lot. and, being one of the first friends i had made since moving here, he has introduced me to lots of great people who i also consider my friends now too. i am thankful for his friendship and dont ever want to lose it.

by the same token, i am dating here and there and really hoping for a healthy relationship with someone. my biggest concern at the moment is if a when i do find that someome, it is going to be a challenge breaking away from the (both intimate and platonic) patterns i an sharing with this guy...not to mention the heartache i (might) feel when i see him move on to another girl...

BUT... the answer pretty much confirmed what i was thinking. i have yet to meet that certain someone to fill that relationship void, therefore i neednt put the cart before the horse just yet. as long as i am "truthful" with myself and him, (and i expect the same from him) things will fall into place as they should. i will continue as i am and cross the other bride when i get to it.

i just needed to make sure that my current path is ok, and that nothing needed to be brought to my attention for further examination...
i.e i wasnt wearing blinders to anything...

you guys are wonderful. thank you for taking the time.