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I've never been in a committed relationship, so no. However, I've experienced heartbreak multiple times so somehow I can relate.40.1 Would you describe yourself as being on the rebound? This line suggests you have recently gotten out of a relationship and should give yourself a chance to regroup before taking on a new commitment.
That was my original intention! Maybe I coundn't express myself properly because English is not my native language. With "pursuing" here I mean: just holding the intention to have a relationship with this person and waiting for the right moment to get to know him to see if a relationship between us would be convenient. Thank you for your guidance!In that case I think this hexagram line may be simply cautioning about "pursuing" as in following someone in order to catch them. Perhaps your attitude should be more one of getting to know this person a bit before making him your project! Also, this line changes to The Marrying Maiden which is a situation where it's best a person patiently and follow another's lead. Can't write more at the moment. Best wishes!
Friendship. He's single!For now, what is your relationship with her (Professional, friendly ... )? Do you know if she's single?
I've been enjoying myself and investing in my own growth and self-esteem. My focus is not entirely shifted on him, so I guess I'm on the right path. Again, I appreciate your guidance!55 is also a hexagram that deals with taking things step by step. So again, no rush! I do think 1.5-14 is a wonderful omen for being happy as a couple but meanwhile consider the benefits of being "just" friends. When you're friends you can be so much more open and honest! The minute you become "lovers" this whole game kicks in where people stop being their true spontaneous selves and start trying to be the person they think the other one will want to stay with forever so you stop being honest and start being manipulative and it all gets weird!!! So enjoy this stage of the journey!!!
I do think 1.5 - 14 is a wonderful omen for being able to be happy as a couple, but don't wait until you are officially A Couple - as in being married with two kids and a mortgage - enjoy being a couple now as in being a couple of friends. Oh and btw, you might try keeping a diary and write down any interaction you have with your friend - you may find this causes your unconscious to give you more insight as to what is really going on here.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).